Wednesday December 17th 2014

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

3 Key Behaviours That Earn Your Ex’s Trust – Pt. 1

3 Key Behaviours That Earn Your Ex’s Trust – Pt. 1

Getting your ex to emotionally open up, especially in the initial stages tends to be the most stressful part of the process for so many people trying to get their ex back. A good number of men and women go straight into "let's try this again". They pour their heart's content in an email thinking that if only they can show their ex how sorry they [...]

The No.1 Reason You Act Needy and Clingy

The No.1 Reason You Act Needy and Clingy

"I'm giving him/her his/her space" is the excuse most men and women give for not contacting their ex. This so overused excuse is usually qualified with "I don't want to come across as needy" or "I don't want to push him/her away." On a superficial level, it sounds oh-so caring. You care so much about your ex that you do not want to "bother" [...]

10 Signs You Are Obsessed With Your Ex

10 Signs You Are Obsessed With Your Ex

If you are here reading this, chances are you still have strong feelings for your ex, and want him or her back. I'm the first one to say, if you still love someone, then fight for your relationship. Too many people give up just because getting your ex back is hard. But sometimes, we hold onto someone or something for all the wrong reasons. And [...]

Do You Know How Your Ex Feels? (Pt. 1)

Do You Know How Your Ex Feels? (Pt. 1)

You may have read this many times in my writings: people want to be with us because of the way we make them feel about themselves. Selfish, you might think and that's understandable. We all like to think that someone is with us because of who we are and  what we bring to the relationship, and to a larger degree that's so true. Who we are and [...]

Help! Ex Wants Time Apart But Still Contacts Me

Help! Ex Wants Time Apart But Still Contacts Me

Question: My ex broke up with me 5 weeks ago,but still contacts me asking how I am. He says he still cares a lot about me but needs a little time apart to work on our respective issues. My question is, why does he still contact me if wants time apart? I'm wrecking my mind here because I don't know what he wants. How will he miss me if he is still [...]

I Love Her But Thinking Of Breaking Up

I Love Her But Thinking Of Breaking Up

Question: I’m a male in a relationship that is going south fast. We’re always fighting and breaking up because she says I don’t open up and share my feelings with her. She takes it personally when she asks me what I’m thinking and I can’t come up with an answer or at least the one she wants to hear. I’ve told her it’s very difficult [...]

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

Some break-ups are amicable and others are so nass-teey. Some people stay friends after a breakup, and others want to forget they ever knew each other's name. Then there are exes that say you are going to remain friends, but then they start acting really cold and mean? S/he sees you and quickly walks away or ignores you altogether, or s/he [...]

Just Friends Or One-Way Romantic Attraction?

Just Friends Or One-Way Romantic Attraction?

When one friend admits they are "into" the other, but the other is not "into" them like that, things can get really weird. But they don't have to, says Heidi Reeder, associate professor of communication at Boise State University. Reeder's research team did a study on why some friendships end and others don't after one friend tells the other [...]

Attracting Back Someone You Dated 0-6 Months – Pt 2

Attracting Back Someone You Dated 0-6 Months – Pt 2

While it seems a lot easier to get back someone you were with in a relationship for a year or more (see why here), it's not completely impossible to get back someone you dated for 6 months or less. The approach you take is of course a little different form couples who were in longer term relationships. With someone you dated for a relatively [...]

Women Incapable Of Recognizing High-Quality Men

Women Incapable Of Recognizing High-Quality Men

Females incapable of recognizing high-quality male can alter the behavior of mates of either sex and disrupt overall social structure, according to research published May 1, 2013 in the open access journal PLOS ONE. Actually the study talks about tone deaf "female cowbirds" incapable of recognizing high-quality "male songs" altering the [...]

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