Wednesday November 26th 2014

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

Why Advice On Getting Your Ex Back Is Not Working

Why Advice On Getting Your Ex Back Is Not Working

Some of you asked me why my advice doesn't work for you. Others have asked me if is really true that people do get back together after a break-up. I've been honest -- sometimes too honest. Not everyone gets their ex back for a number of reasons, some of which I've shared in many articles. Even the very best advice can only do so much. In [...]

3 Key Behaviours That Earn Your Ex’s Trust – Pt 3

3 Key Behaviours That Earn Your Ex’s Trust – Pt 3

Continued from - Pt. 2 3. Consistency I always advice my clients not to be too concerned about whether an ex responds to a text, email or call immediately or responds a week later, but to look at the consistency of their positions as this is a better indicator of whether you are making progress - or being played. Whether or not someone [...]

Does Someone Using “No Contact” Love You?

Does Someone Using “No Contact” Love You?

Anna Wrote: I am a little confused about one part in your article. In one of the paragraphs you say that people who use 'no contact' are not using it because they love you... Yet in the same paragraph you also say that these people are not out to hurt the person they love, which implies that this would be done to a person they love... So then, if [...]

8 Simple Rules For Dating Your Ex

8 Simple Rules For Dating Your Ex

Dating your ex again isn't the same as dating someone new. You have a romantic history together and that changes the whole dynamics of approaching, asking for a date and entering into a relationship. One of the hardest things to do is figuring out which behaviours are proper and which are potentially damaging. Here are 8 simple rules that can [...]

Why Women Call And Text Men They’re Interested In

Why Women Call And Text Men They’re Interested In

There was a time when men were expected to make the first moves in courtship, but research suggests it is now women who take the lead, relentlessly pursuing lovers with phone calls and texts. A study of mobile phone traffic indicates that women are more intent than men on having a romantic relationship. "It's the first really strong evidence [...]

10 Silly Mind Games Your Ex Is Playing

10 Silly Mind Games Your Ex Is Playing

A mind or mental game is nothing more than good old manipulation to get you to do what someone wants you to do, but suspects or knows that you will not do willingly or unreservedly -- and for good reason. The whole purpose is to try to mess with your otherwise sane and reasonable head. Here is the thing: If it feels like a mind game, it [...]

Are Women Too Picky Or Choosing More Carefully?

Are Women Too Picky Or Choosing More Carefully?

A friend sent me a link to Lori Gottlieb article in wowowow.com. Just in case you’re wondering what all the wowos mean, it’s a women on the Web website. The article is a recap of her new book which reveals why you may be wrong about Mr. Right. Ms. Gottlieb writes, “You can’t just order up the perfect husband á la carte. I’ll take a [...]

How to Make A Commitment Phobe Want Commit

How to Make A Commitment Phobe Want Commit

Many relationships today end because one person wants commitment and the other is afraid to commit. The one who wants commitment is left feeling unwanted while the one who is afraid of commitment goes from one relationship to another and even keeps on leaving and returning to relationships with an ex because he or she won't commit to a long-term [...]

Help! My Ex Wants Me Back But I’m Scared

Help! My Ex Wants Me Back But I’m Scared

Question: My ex did not care about my feelings when we were together. He treated me like I was not going anywhere, and he could do whatever he likes. Now that we’re not together he’s being so unbelievably sweet and caring. He has admitted that he was wrong in the way he treated me in the relationship and apologized for being such "a fool". He [...]

10 Types Of People No One Wants To Have Sex With

10 Types Of People No One Wants To Have Sex With

To find or have a partner with whom we can have a real healthy connection with, emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually, socially and sexually is an incredible gift, in my opinion. To be that partner is however, a challenge for many of us. Most of us still do not know how to celebrate and honour all these parts of the Self, especially our [...]

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