Monday September 1st 2014

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

Who Has More Power In Your Relationship?

Who Has More Power In Your Relationship?

Does it make you angry and frustrated that your ex has "more power" in the situation than you do?  If it does, you need to read this -- to the very end. According to a new study recently published online in the National Communication Association's journal, Communication Monographs, people's thoughts during a conflict situation reflect and [...]

Do You Have An Emotional Connection With Your Ex?

Do You Have An Emotional Connection With Your Ex?

I was listening to two friends argue about which phone is better, an iphone or blackberry. I had heard and read well researched and informed logical and technical arguments for either side when deciding whether to move from my BB to an iphone. But what was very interesting about this conversation (and many similar "conversations" between iphone [...]

How Soon Is Too Soon To Say “I Love You!”

How Soon Is Too Soon To Say “I Love You!”

The exchange of the words "I love you" mark a big milestones in any relationship.  But both men and women sometimes find it difficult to say "I love you" because they are afraid of what the other might say. A client told me he had tried many times to say the words but somehow could not bring himself to say them. When he finally said "I love [...]

3 Key Behaviours That Earn Your Ex’s Trust – Pt. 1

3 Key Behaviours That Earn Your Ex’s Trust – Pt. 1

Getting your ex to emotionally open up, especially in the initial stages tends to be the most stressful part of the process for so many people trying to get their ex back. A good number of men and women go straight into "let's try this again". They pour their heart's content in an email thinking that if only they can show their ex how sorry they [...]

5 Mistakes Women Who Try Too Hard Make

5 Mistakes Women Who Try Too Hard Make

Many single women today are women who've worked so hard to become successful in their careers or businesses. They've learned the hard way that success doesn't come without them taking control of situations and making it happen. They have taken this great attitude into their dating and love lives too and are not just content sitting around and [...]

If Someone Loved You They Would Change For You

If Someone Loved You They Would Change For You

Experts agree that the reasons we so easily choose the “wrong people” are varied and complex. After a lifetime with automatic pilot set on “seeking acceptance” and working hard to get people to love you, you may be so accustomed to offering up who you are and your power to win acceptance and love that you are not choosing well. The [...]

How To Get Your Man To Behave Selflessly!

How To Get Your Man To Behave Selflessly!

Apparently there is a sure-fire way to get your man to behave selflessly. Invite over your attractive friends and few other males... Men put on their best behaviour when attractive ladies are close by. When the scenario is reversed however, the behaviour of women remains the same. These findings were published February 2, 2012, in the [...]

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

Some break-ups are amicable and others are so nass-teey. Some people stay friends after a breakup, and others want to forget they ever knew each other's name. Then there are exes that say you are going to remain friends, but then they start acting really cold and mean? S/he sees you and quickly walks away or ignores you altogether, or s/he [...]

4 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex

4 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex

Communication is one of the top causes, if not, "the" top cause of break-ups. It's no surprise that "communicating with your ex" is one of the biggest challenges post break-up-- and also the most polarizing when it comes to how to get one's ex back. Some people believe no communication will make their ex miss them and want to come back. Others, [...]

10 Signs Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is Selfish

10 Signs Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is Selfish

Have you ever been out on a date and your date was rude to a service person and even though you were first so strongly attracted to him/her, the attraction suddenly went down a few notches? May be you have an ex who you still have very strong feelings for but you just can’t bring yourself to go back into the relationship because you feel your [...]

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