Sunday March 1st 2015

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

8 Simple Rules For Dating Your Ex

8 Simple Rules For Dating Your Ex

Dating your ex again isn't the same as dating someone new. You have a romantic history together and that changes the whole dynamics of approaching, asking for a date and entering into a relationship. One of the hardest things to do is figuring out which behaviours are proper and which are potentially damaging. Here are 8 simple rules that can [...]

That Special Connection You Had With Your Ex

That Special Connection You Had With Your Ex

"We looked into each other's eyes and made a connection" "We had a special connection, it's like we knew each other" "I've never felt anything like this with anyone else" "He/she is like nobody I have ever met" These are some o the words many of my clients use to describe the relationship they had with their ex -- and I believe them [...]

3 Key Behaviours That Earn Your Ex’s Trust – Pt. 1

3 Key Behaviours That Earn Your Ex’s Trust – Pt. 1

Getting your ex to emotionally open up, especially in the initial stages tends to be the most stressful part of the process for so many people trying to get their ex back. A good number of men and women go straight into "let's try this again". They pour their heart's content in an email thinking that if only they can show their ex how sorry they [...]

How Do I Start A NEW Relationship With My Ex?

How Do I Start A NEW Relationship With My Ex?

Question: Yangki, I really want to buy your eBook because I love your articles and your approach to love and relationships. Can you clarify what you mean by "starting the relationship with your ex all over". My ex and I were together for 4 years. We've broken up several times but always found ourselves back with the other. I have no doubt she [...]

The Risk You’re Taking With Low Or Limited Contact

The Risk You’re Taking With Low Or Limited Contact

Continued from: LC Hurting Your Chances... In my previous article I made it very clear that whether to do "no contact, "low contact", "high contact" and whatever else is your choice, and yours alone. Your relationship. Your heart. Your life! So please don't bombard me with passive aggressive "what do you have against giving your ex space?" [...]

It’s His Ring Finger Size Not His Shoe Size

It’s His Ring Finger Size Not His Shoe Size

Forget his shoe size. It's his ring finger that you should be sizing up. At least that's what a new study is now saying. According to this study by researchers at McGill University, men with short index fingers and long ring fingers are on average nicer towards women, and tend to have more children. For 20 days, 155 participants in the study [...]

Facebook Unfriending Has Real Life Consequences

Facebook Unfriending Has Real Life Consequences

Unfriending someone on Facebook may be as easy as clicking a button, but a new study from the University of Colorado Denver shows the repercussions often reach far beyond cyberspace. "People think social networks are just for fun," said study author Christopher Sibona, a doctoral student in the Computer Science and Information Systems program [...]

How To Tell If He/she Loves You Or Just Needs You?

How To Tell If He/she Loves You Or Just Needs You?

So many of us use the word "love" when we really mean "need". I have many of my clients who come to me with a broken heart, "I really love him/her" but when we analyze what he or she really means, the person realizes that what they really meant was, "I really need him/her" What's the difference? Have you had crush on or "fallen in love" with [...]

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 2

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 2

Continued from Pt. 1. When you take full responsibility for how you reacted in the past, you are also holding yourself accountable for how you will respond in the future. Those two go together. If you just keep beating yourself up for your past mistakes, and don't do anything to make sure you do not repeat those mistakes, you will find [...]

If Someone Loved You They Would Change For You

If Someone Loved You They Would Change For You

Experts agree that the reasons we so easily choose the “wrong people” are varied and complex. After a lifetime with automatic pilot set on “seeking acceptance” and working hard to get people to love you, you may be so accustomed to offering up who you are and your power to win acceptance and love that you are not choosing well. The [...]

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