Sunday August 2nd 2015

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

4 Ways to Move On After a Break-Up

4 Ways to Move On After a Break-Up

Whilst breaking up is hard for everyone regardless of whether you've been going out for one week, one month or one year, how we chooses to move on after the break up is different for each individual, and for each relationship. Personally, I do not think there is one best decision that works for everyone. I've seen one decision that worked for [...]

On-And-Off Again Relationship – Time To Give Up?

On-And-Off Again Relationship – Time To Give Up?

I receive email questions from men and women, young and old, and from all walks of life who are in a relationship that on-again and off-again. Both people are in some ways hurting each other but the attraction and chemistry is so strong that they can’t imagine life without the other. It is as if they're locked in what I call “madness for [...]

Are Women Too Picky Or Choosing More Carefully?

Are Women Too Picky Or Choosing More Carefully?

A friend sent me a link to Lori Gottlieb article in wowowow.com. Just in case you’re wondering what all the wowos mean, it’s a women on the Web website. The article is a recap of her new book which reveals why you may be wrong about Mr. Right. Ms. Gottlieb writes, “You can’t just order up the perfect husband á la carte. I’ll take a [...]

Is It Your Fault If Your Partner Is Abusive?

Is It Your Fault If Your Partner Is Abusive?

It's your fault for dating or marrying "down", if you accept that having a higher income or education than your partner increases the chance of psychological violence and abuse. According to a recent study on violence and relationships pu, "Whenever power is unevenly allocated in a relationship the chance of physical and psychological abuse [...]

10 Signs You Are Obsessed With Your Ex

10 Signs You Are Obsessed With Your Ex

If you are here reading this, chances are you still have strong feelings for your ex, and want him or her back. I'm the first one to say, if you still love someone, then fight for your relationship. Too many people give up just because getting your ex back is hard. But sometimes, we hold onto someone or something for all the wrong reasons. And [...]

A Simple Way To Tell Your Ex Still Trusts You

A Simple Way To Tell Your Ex Still Trusts You

Getting back your ex is not as easy as it seems. Getting back an ex who doesn't trust you is even much harder. First of all, you have to earn their trust again, then you have to get them interested in giving the relationship another chance. But that's if you even know that he/she doesn't want you back because he/she doesn't trust you. Most exes [...]

Do You Know How Your Ex Feels? (Pt. 2)

Do You Know How Your Ex Feels? (Pt. 2)

Click here to read (Pt.1) There are people who just feel bad about themselves no matter who they're with. They go from one man or woman to another looking to "feel good" but ultimately fail to find what they are looking for and either continue "looking" or end up bitter and resentful because nobody can make them feel good about [...]

10 Silly Mind Games Your Ex Is Playing

10 Silly Mind Games Your Ex Is Playing

A mind or mental game is nothing more than good old manipulation to get you to do what someone wants you to do, but suspects or knows that you will not do willingly or unreservedly -- and for good reason. The whole purpose is to try to mess with your otherwise sane and reasonable head. Here is the thing: If it feels like a mind game, it [...]

How Do I Start A NEW Relationship With My Ex?

How Do I Start A NEW Relationship With My Ex?

Question: Yangki, I really want to buy your eBook because I love your articles and your approach to love and relationships. Can you clarify what you mean by "starting the relationship with your ex all over". My ex and I were together for 4 years. We've broken up several times but always found ourselves back with the other. I have no doubt she [...]

Can I Get Back An Emotionally Unavailable Ex?

Can I Get Back An Emotionally Unavailable Ex?

Question: Everything was so great the first 4 months of our relationship. He arranged dates, cooked me dinner and we made love almost every night. Then things changed. He started distancing himself, was working longer hours and had a lot of stress at work. We barely saw each other because he was always cancelling dates and never called when he [...]

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