Thursday April 2nd 2015

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

Can I Get Back An Emotionally Unavailable Ex?

Can I Get Back An Emotionally Unavailable Ex?

Question: Everything was so great the first 4 months of our relationship. He arranged dates, cooked me dinner and we made love almost every night. Then things changed. He started distancing himself, was working longer hours and had a lot of stress at work. We barely saw each other because he was always cancelling dates and never called when he [...]

Born – Again Christian Men Are Boring

Born – Again Christian Men Are Boring

One of my friends just returned from Afghanistan. I love this friend so dearly, but he is really getting on my nerves. Every sentence he says has the word "Afghanistan" in it. Afghanistan this... Afghan people that...in Afghanistan they... blah, blah, blah. All the things he says are positive, interesting and educational, and there is no [...]

What Does Your Ex Think Of Your Intentions?

What Does Your Ex Think Of Your Intentions?

If you've been reading my blog and have my eBooks, by now you know I'm all for keeping contact with your ex, if you want him or her back. You cut off contact you cut the connection. Trying to recover that connection later on will be much harder than you can imagine. But just mere contact for the sake of contact isn't enough to keep the [...]

Will No Contact Make Your Ex Miss You?

Will No Contact Make Your Ex Miss You?

Comment: Yangki, I think that No Contact works if you wait long enough for both you and your ex to remember the good times at the beginning of your relationship, more easily than you remember the bad times at the end. Like John, I acted very needy and desperate at the end and she threatened to report me to the authorities if I didn't stop [...]

15 Statements That Say You’ve Given Up On Love

15 Statements That Say You’ve Given Up On Love

Intimate relationships are not just good for us, they are necessary because they challenge and stimulate our emotional, sexual and spiritual maturity. When you love someone, and someone loves you, you are each other's most trusted, reliable and honest mirror -- constantly reflecting one to the other. You also balance each other's masculine and [...]

On-And-Off Again Relationship – Time To Give Up?

On-And-Off Again Relationship – Time To Give Up?

I receive email questions from men and women, young and old, and from all walks of life who are in a relationship that on-again and off-again. Both people are in some ways hurting each other but the attraction and chemistry is so strong that they can’t imagine life without the other. It is as if they're locked in what I call “madness for [...]

Does My Ex Still Have Feelings For Me?

Does My Ex Still Have Feelings For Me?

Question: Three weeks ago I contacted my ex about some important documents. I went to pick up the documents and we ended up going out for dinner. A month ago she wouldn't return any of my calls. We have had many phone conversation mostly about business, family and mutual friends. When we talk I’m cheerful, confident and relaxed because I want [...]

3 Key Behaviours That Earn Your Ex’s Trust – Pt. 2

3 Key Behaviours That Earn Your Ex’s Trust – Pt. 2

Continued from - Pt. 1 2. Personal Responsibility It's a human tendency to want to explain, defend oneself and set the record straight. We somehow believe that by "clarifying" things, we can get the other person to see things our way, understand why we did what we did, and hopefully want to give the relationship another chance. In a [...]

No.1 Reason You’re Not Making Progress With Your Ex

No.1 Reason You’re Not Making Progress With Your Ex

If you have been reading my articles for sometime now, you know that I believe that there is nothing more important when it comes to relationships than EMOTIONS and feelings. You could even describe all my body of work as about "emotions". Now, we can argue all we want about "rational" thinking and how it's more important than emotion, but at [...]

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Does contact with an ex you still have feelings for prevent you from moving on? Most people will say, YES! Being too close or spending time with an ex prevents you from moving on. The best thing to do if you want to move on is completely disconnect yourself from your ex and have nothing to do with him/her. But as many of you have found [...]

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