Tuesday July 22nd 2014

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

4 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex

4 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex

Communication is one of the top causes, if not, "the" top cause of break-ups. It's no surprise that "communicating with your ex" is one of the biggest challenges post break-up-- and also the most polarizing when it comes to how to get one's ex back. Some people believe no communication will make their ex miss them and want to come back. Others, [...]

How To Get Closer To Someone You Love

How To Get Closer To Someone You Love

“My problem is that I love him too much!” “What do you mean?” "He’s taking my love for granted because I’m always there. May be I should play hard to get”. This mindset is based on the notion that if two people love each other, they should want to spend every breathing moment with each other. If one person does not desire [...]

A Simple Way To Tell Your Ex Still Trusts You

A Simple Way To Tell Your Ex Still Trusts You

Getting back your ex is not as easy as it seems. Getting back an ex who doesn't trust you is even much harder. First of all, you have to earn their trust again, then you have to get them interested in giving the relationship another chance. But that's if you even know that he/she doesn't want you back because he/she doesn't trust you. Most exes [...]

That Special Connection You Had With Your Ex

That Special Connection You Had With Your Ex

"We looked into each other's eyes and made a connection" "We had a special connection, it's like we knew each other" "I've never felt anything like this with anyone else" "He/she is like nobody I have ever met" These are some o the words many of my clients use to describe the relationship they had with their ex -- and I believe them [...]

Why You Date People Who Aren’t Good For You

Why You Date People Who Aren’t Good For You

Fear of being single is a meaningful predictor of settling for less in relationships among both men and women, a new University of Toronto (U of T) study has found. The results are published in the December edition of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. "Those with stronger fears about being single are willing to settle for less [...]

4 Myths About How To Make Your Ex Miss You

4 Myths About How To Make Your Ex Miss You

Comment: Yangki, I think that No Contact works if you wait long enough for both you and your ex to remember the good times at the beginning of your relationship, more easily than you remember the bad times at the end. Like John, I acted very needy and desperate at the end and she threatened to report me to the authorities if I didn't stop [...]

3 Key Behaviours That Earn Your Ex’s Trust – Pt. 1

3 Key Behaviours That Earn Your Ex’s Trust – Pt. 1

Getting your ex to emotionally open up, especially in the initial stages tends to be the most stressful part of the process for so many people trying to get their ex back. A good number of men and women go straight into "let's try this again". They pour their heart's content in an email thinking that if only they can show their ex how sorry they [...]

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

Some break-ups are amicable and others are so nass-teey. Some people stay friends after a breakup, and others want to forget they ever knew each other's name. Then there are exes that say you are going to remain friends, but then they start acting really cold and mean? S/he sees you and quickly walks away or ignores you altogether, or s/he [...]

No.1 Reason You’re Not Making Progress With Your Ex

No.1 Reason You’re Not Making Progress With Your Ex

If you have been reading my articles for sometime now, you know that I believe that there is nothing more important when it comes to relationships than EMOTIONS and feelings. You could even describe all my body of work as about "emotions". Now, we can argue all we want about "rational" thinking and how it's more important than emotion, but at [...]

Does She Love You Or Are You Wasting Your Time?

Does She Love You Or Are You Wasting Your Time?

Question: Three months, two dates every week and many expensive gifts but we’ve never been alone, just the two of us. It’s always one high-end party after another. Money is not a problem. I do quite well and take pleasure in making my woman happy. I also like her friends and they like me but it'd be nice to once in a while go out on a normal [...]

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