Wednesday January 28th 2015

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

5 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex

5 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex

Communication is one of the top causes, if not, "the" top cause of break-ups. It's no surprise that "communicating with your ex" is one of the biggest challenges post break-up-- and also the most polarizing when it comes to how to get one's ex back. Some people believe no communication will make their ex miss them and want to come back. Others, [...]

Why Men Don’t Understand Women… Shhesh!

Why Men Don’t Understand Women… Shhesh!

A client asked me the other day: "Why can't men understand our feelings and emotions? Why can't they figure out what we women want?" For a few moments I sat silent with a smile on my face. I was reminded of yet another client I had a session with just a few days before. He'd been working with me for six months when he met a wonderful woman he [...]

Does Someone Using “No Contact” Love You?

Does Someone Using “No Contact” Love You?

Anna Wrote: I am a little confused about one part in your article. In one of the paragraphs you say that people who use 'no contact' are not using it because they love you... Yet in the same paragraph you also say that these people are not out to hurt the person they love, which implies that this would be done to a person they love... So then, if [...]

10 Types Of People No One Wants To Have Sex With

10 Types Of People No One Wants To Have Sex With

To find or have a partner with whom we can have a real healthy connection with, emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually, socially and sexually is an incredible gift, in my opinion. To be that partner is however, a challenge for many of us. Most of us still do not know how to celebrate and honour all these parts of the Self, especially our [...]

A Simple Way To Tell Your Ex Still Trusts You

A Simple Way To Tell Your Ex Still Trusts You

Getting back your ex is not as easy as it seems. Getting back an ex who doesn't trust you is even much harder. First of all, you have to earn their trust again, then you have to get them interested in giving the relationship another chance. But that's if you even know that he/she doesn't want you back because he/she doesn't trust you. Most exes [...]

8 Simple Rules For Dating Your Ex

8 Simple Rules For Dating Your Ex

Dating your ex again isn't the same as dating someone new. You have a romantic history together and that changes the whole dynamics of approaching, asking for a date and entering into a relationship. One of the hardest things to do is figuring out which behaviours are proper and which are potentially damaging. Here are 8 simple rules that can [...]

Make Someone Fall In Love In 30 Minutes or Less!

Make Someone Fall In Love In 30 Minutes or Less!

Yeah-right! If you clicked on this article hoping to find magic words to say to make someone instantly fall in love with you, or some kind of love spell to cast on that not-so-interested man or woman, I am sorry to disappoint you. I am old school on this one: You can't hurry love. No, you just have to wait. Love don't come easy. It's a game [...]

Signs You Or Your Partner Is Emotionally Immature

Signs You Or Your Partner Is Emotionally Immature

Emotional maturity is not something most of us consciously look for in a partner. For many of us, it’s not even a priority in the qualities we look for. We kind of take it for granted that if you’re attracted to someone, then everything will fall into place. If the relationship is casual and not expected to grow into something long term, [...]

Are Men Funnier Than Women?

Are Men Funnier Than Women?

We've all heard that men are generally funnier than women, but is there some substance behind the stereotype i.e. are men actually funnier than women or are they simply perceived as such? In their work that appears online in Psychonomic Bulletin & Review,  Laura Mickes and her team, from the University of California, and Robert Mankoff [...]

4 Must-Dos Before You Give Up On Your Ex – Pt 2

4 Must-Dos Before You Give Up On Your Ex – Pt 2

Please read 4 Must-Dos Before You Give Up On Your Ex - Pt 1 to fully appreciate the steps you need to take to get back your ex. I'll probably get a lot of grief from "victims" of selfish, emotionally detached, emotionally unavailable, jerk, narcissist, gold-digging etc exes, for even suggesting that a love-hate relationship can actually work. [...]

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