Wednesday October 22nd 2014

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

How Open Are You To Receiving His/Her Love?

How Open Are You To Receiving His/Her Love?

Many of you reading my articles may have noticed that I rarely talk about my personal or private life. One, I'm a sort of a introvert-extrovert (if there is such a thing), and two, I try as much as possible not to let "me" get in the way of my trying to help others. But once in a while, after hearing about the personal struggles of my clients [...]

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

A client asked me the other day, “What would you do if your ex was playing mind games?” The “Love Coach” in me wanted to go straight to “advice mode” but then I remembered that I wasn’t always a love doctor. There was a time in my life when I did some things that were not so “loving”, and I write about this in my Dating Your [...]

10 Ways Your Ex Feels Rejected By You

10 Ways Your Ex Feels Rejected By You

It seems that these days, everyone is writing about their experience of dating or being in a relationship with a narcissistic boy/girlfriend, spouse, partner or ex. I myself have written one article on selfish boy/girlfriends. While there are men and women who are incapable of love, men and women who don’t know how to open their hearts to [...]

Just Friends Or One-Way Romantic Attraction?

Just Friends Or One-Way Romantic Attraction?

When one friend admits they are "into" the other, but the other is not "into" them like that, things can get really weird. But they don't have to, says Heidi Reeder, associate professor of communication at Boise State University. Reeder's research team did a study on why some friendships end and others don't after one friend tells the other [...]

How To Get Your Man To Behave Selflessly!

How To Get Your Man To Behave Selflessly!

Apparently there is a sure-fire way to get your man to behave selflessly. Invite over your attractive friends and few other males... Men put on their best behaviour when attractive ladies are close by. When the scenario is reversed however, the behaviour of women remains the same. These findings were published February 2, 2012, in the [...]

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 2

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 2

Continued from Pt. 1. When you take full responsibility for how you reacted in the past, you are also holding yourself accountable for how you will respond in the future. Those two go together. If you just keep beating yourself up for your past mistakes, and don't do anything to make sure you do not repeat those mistakes, you will find [...]

10 Signs Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is Selfish

10 Signs Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is Selfish

Have you ever been out on a date and your date was rude to a service person and even though you were first so strongly attracted to him/her, the attraction suddenly went down a few notches? May be you have an ex who you still have very strong feelings for but you just can’t bring yourself to go back into the relationship because you feel your [...]

5 Tips On Breaking Up Amicably

5 Tips On Breaking Up Amicably

Amicable break-ups where there are no lingering resentments are rare, but they do happen. Here are some quick tips on how to have one. 1. Plan time to have the break-up talk. If possible, do it over a period of time to allow both of you to process your feelings, ask all the questions you may have, and say your goodbyes. 2. Be open and [...]

7 Tips – Re-establshing Contact With Your Ex

7 Tips – Re-establshing Contact With Your Ex

Remember those first dates when you and your now ex couldn't stop texting and calling each other? You clicked on every level... were interested in the same things, laughed at the same jokes, and wanted to know everything that happened to the other. Now it feels like your ex doesn't want to talk to you. He/she barely replies to your texts, [...]

That Special Connection You Had With Your Ex

That Special Connection You Had With Your Ex

"We looked into each other's eyes and made a connection" "We had a special connection, it's like we knew each other" "I've never felt anything like this with anyone else" "He/she is like nobody I have ever met" These are some o the words many of my clients use to describe the relationship they had with their ex -- and I believe them [...]

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