Sunday March 29th 2015

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

10 Signs Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is Selfish

10 Signs Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is Selfish

Have you ever been out on a date and your date was rude to a service person and even though you were first so strongly attracted to him/her, the attraction suddenly went down a few notches? May be you have an ex who you still have very strong feelings for but you just can’t bring yourself to go back into the relationship because you feel your [...]

Are Men Funnier Than Women?

Are Men Funnier Than Women?

We've all heard that men are generally funnier than women, but is there some substance behind the stereotype i.e. are men actually funnier than women or are they simply perceived as such? In their work that appears online in Psychonomic Bulletin & Review,  Laura Mickes and her team, from the University of California, and Robert Mankoff [...]

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

A client asked me the other day, “What would you do if your ex was playing mind games?” The “Love Coach” in me wanted to go straight to “advice mode” but then I remembered that I wasn’t always a love doctor. There was a time in my life when I did some things that were not so “loving”, and I write about this in my Dating Your [...]

Facebook Unfriending Has Real Life Consequences

Facebook Unfriending Has Real Life Consequences

Unfriending someone on Facebook may be as easy as clicking a button, but a new study from the University of Colorado Denver shows the repercussions often reach far beyond cyberspace. "People think social networks are just for fun," said study author Christopher Sibona, a doctoral student in the Computer Science and Information Systems program [...]

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex (Pt. 3)

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex (Pt. 3)

Continued from Pt 2... Completely changing the way you seek connection, especially with your ex, begins with dealing with your need for connection in a healthier way. 1. Embrace your need for connection You are human, and that means you are wired to need and seek strong connections with others. The need to contact someone you love is [...]

Does Someone Using “No Contact” Love You?

Does Someone Using “No Contact” Love You?

Anna Wrote: I am a little confused about one part in your article. In one of the paragraphs you say that people who use 'no contact' are not using it because they love you... Yet in the same paragraph you also say that these people are not out to hurt the person they love, which implies that this would be done to a person they love... So then, if [...]

Tips For Giving Him/Her The Space He/She Needs

Tips For Giving Him/Her The Space He/She Needs

Having enough space or privacy in a relationship is more important for a couple's happiness than having a good sex life, says a resent US study on marriage. So why is space so important in a relationship? "When partners have their own set of interests, friends, and time for self, that makes them happier and less bored," says Dr Terri Orbuch [...]

4 Must-Dos Before You Give Up On Your Ex – Pt 1

4 Must-Dos Before You Give Up On Your Ex – Pt 1

I receive so many blog questions, and also work with so many men and women who are in relationships where on an average day, they fluctuate between should I stay or should I go, should I fight for him/her or should I give up. One day they write me telling me they do not think the relationship is going any where, they are not happy, they do not [...]

Why Women Call And Text Men They’re Interested In

Why Women Call And Text Men They’re Interested In

There was a time when men were expected to make the first moves in courtship, but research suggests it is now women who take the lead, relentlessly pursuing lovers with phone calls and texts. A study of mobile phone traffic indicates that women are more intent than men on having a romantic relationship. "It's the first really strong evidence [...]

Women Incapable Of Recognizing High-Quality Men

Women Incapable Of Recognizing High-Quality Men

Females incapable of recognizing high-quality male can alter the behavior of mates of either sex and disrupt overall social structure, according to research published May 1, 2013 in the open access journal PLOS ONE. Actually the study talks about tone deaf "female cowbirds" incapable of recognizing high-quality "male songs" altering the [...]

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