Friday October 24th 2014

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

On-And-Off Again Relationship – Time To Give Up?

On-And-Off Again Relationship – Time To Give Up?

I receive email questions from men and women, young and old, and from all walks of life who are in a relationship that on-again and off-again. Both people are in some ways hurting each other but the attraction and chemistry is so strong that they can’t imagine life without the other. It is as if they're locked in what I call “madness for [...]

You Are NOT Needy and Clingy If…

You Are NOT Needy and Clingy If…

Many of us do not know that we are needy and clingy, let alone can accept that we are. If anyone even remotely suggested that we are needy or cling, we'd get defensive about it. But if your desire to get closer to someone only makes the other person want distance, chances are you are needy and clingy. You may not be needy all the time and to [...]

Masculine Faces Aren’t What They Appear To Be

Masculine Faces Aren’t What They Appear To Be

What comes to mind when you picture a man with a broad face, a square jaw, and a stoical demeanour ? Aggressive, not so-cuddly, cold, dishonest, uncooperative... Not so fast says new study, published in Psychological Science, a journal of the Association for Psychological Science (June 2012). Men with these wide, masculine faces aren't [...]

KillSwitch Break-Up App — Cold Or Brilliant?

KillSwitch Break-Up App — Cold Or Brilliant?

There's now a quick, and apparently emotional-less way to erase your ex on your Facebook page. KillSwitch, a new app that launched -- ironically enough -- on Valentine's Day, takes care of everything for you, removing all photos, status updates and wall posts concerning your ex when you just can't bring yourself to do it. But KillSwitch is [...]

Why You Should Forgive Already

Why You Should Forgive Already

Forgiveness has been on my mind lately. No, I am not hurting. And I have forgiven all I need to forgive, and hopefully have been forgiven for all the wrongs I've done to others. Hearing about and seeing so many relationships destroyed by emotional hurt and so many good and loving people kept apart by the struggle to forgive the other, may be the [...]

How Open Are You To Receiving His/Her Love?

How Open Are You To Receiving His/Her Love?

Many of you reading my articles may have noticed that I rarely talk about my personal or private life. One, I'm a sort of a introvert-extrovert (if there is such a thing), and two, I try as much as possible not to let "me" get in the way of my trying to help others. But once in a while, after hearing about the personal struggles of my clients [...]

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

A client asked me the other day, “What would you do if your ex was playing mind games?” The “Love Coach” in me wanted to go straight to “advice mode” but then I remembered that I wasn’t always a love doctor. There was a time in my life when I did some things that were not so “loving”, and I write about this in my Dating Your [...]

10 Ways Your Ex Feels Rejected By You

10 Ways Your Ex Feels Rejected By You

It seems that these days, everyone is writing about their experience of dating or being in a relationship with a narcissistic boy/girlfriend, spouse, partner or ex. I myself have written one article on selfish boy/girlfriends. While there are men and women who are incapable of love, men and women who don’t know how to open their hearts to [...]

Just Friends Or One-Way Romantic Attraction?

Just Friends Or One-Way Romantic Attraction?

When one friend admits they are "into" the other, but the other is not "into" them like that, things can get really weird. But they don't have to, says Heidi Reeder, associate professor of communication at Boise State University. Reeder's research team did a study on why some friendships end and others don't after one friend tells the other [...]

How To Get Your Man To Behave Selflessly!

How To Get Your Man To Behave Selflessly!

Apparently there is a sure-fire way to get your man to behave selflessly. Invite over your attractive friends and few other males... Men put on their best behaviour when attractive ladies are close by. When the scenario is reversed however, the behaviour of women remains the same. These findings were published February 2, 2012, in the [...]

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