Saturday August 29th 2015

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

10 Types Of People No One Wants To Have Sex With

10 Types Of People No One Wants To Have Sex With

To find or have a partner with whom we can have a real healthy connection with, emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually, socially and sexually is an incredible gift, in my opinion. To be that partner is however, a challenge for many of us. Most of us still do not know how to celebrate and honour all these parts of the Self, especially our [...]

Born – Again Christian Men Are Boring

Born – Again Christian Men Are Boring

One of my friends just returned from Afghanistan. I love this friend so dearly, but he is really getting on my nerves. Every sentence he says has the word "Afghanistan" in it. Afghanistan this... Afghan people that...in Afghanistan they... blah, blah, blah. All the things he says are positive, interesting and educational, and there is no [...]

No.1 Reason You’re Not Making Progress With Your Ex

No.1 Reason You’re Not Making Progress With Your Ex

If you have been reading my articles for sometime now, you know that I believe that there is nothing more important when it comes to relationships than EMOTIONS and feelings. You could even describe all my body of work as about "emotions". Now, we can argue all we want about "rational" thinking and how it's more important than emotion, but at [...]

Can I Get Back An Emotionally Unavailable Ex?

Can I Get Back An Emotionally Unavailable Ex?

Question: Everything was so great the first 4 months of our relationship. He arranged dates, cooked me dinner and we made love almost every night. Then things changed. He started distancing himself, was working longer hours and had a lot of stress at work. We barely saw each other because he was always cancelling dates and never called when he [...]

Feeling Like Nobody Really Cares About You

Feeling Like Nobody Really Cares About You

"I don't know why I am doing this. I've never done this until now", he begun. "That's okay", I said. "That's why I am here. How can I be of help?" "No body calls me back." "I am listening", I said. "I feel like no body really cares about me." "Are you talking about the opposite sex, family, friends?' "I am close to my family and [...]

How Often Should I Contact My Ex?

How Often Should I Contact My Ex?

Question: Yangki, my ex broke up with me over six months ago because he said I was needy and clingy. I worked hard and have filled my life with things I love, and I'm very busy most of the time. We started chatting again a month and half ago, and things were great in the beginning. But for the last couple of weeks he's been telling me he feels [...]

How to Make A Commitment Phobe Want Commit

How to Make A Commitment Phobe Want Commit

Many relationships today end because one person wants commitment and the other is afraid to commit. The one who wants commitment is left feeling unwanted while the one who is afraid of commitment goes from one relationship to another and even keeps on leaving and returning to relationships with an ex because he or she won't commit to a long-term [...]

How To Move Your Relationship Forward Faster

How To Move Your Relationship Forward Faster

How often have you met someone you’re so in love with and you wish, dream and pray that he or she is the person you’ll spend the rest of your days on earth with, then for some reason something happens inside of you and you find yourself rushing the relationship to a premature ending? My guess is quite a few times. And if you’re reading [...]

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 2

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 2

Continued from Pt. 1. When you take full responsibility for how you reacted in the past, you are also holding yourself accountable for how you will respond in the future. Those two go together. If you just keep beating yourself up for your past mistakes, and don't do anything to make sure you do not repeat those mistakes, you will find [...]

20 Signs You’re Ready For A Healthy Relationship

20 Signs You’re Ready For A Healthy Relationship

I‘ve been flooded with emails from men and women asking me to explain exactly what learning and moving on entails. Most people seem to recognize that there is definitely a self-destructive pattern in their relationships, a pattern they are stuck in. A few of them have been working to break free from their destructive patterns but now ask, [...]

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