Saturday February 28th 2015

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

Read This If You Suspect Your Ex Is A Narcissist

Read This If You Suspect Your Ex Is A Narcissist

Have you noticed that men and women who are overly self-absorbed, aggressive, forceful, opinionated, love the sound of their own voice and have an air of superiority simply because they have good looks, success, skill or "luck" in a particular area of life populate the ranks of frustrated singles, unhappy spouses and loners, while average looking [...]

How To Move Your Relationship Forward Faster

How To Move Your Relationship Forward Faster

How often have you met someone you’re so in love with and you wish, dream and pray that he or she is the person you’ll spend the rest of your days on earth with, then for some reason something happens inside of you and you find yourself rushing the relationship to a premature ending? My guess is quite a few times. And if you’re reading [...]

Can I Get Back An Emotionally Unavailable Ex?

Can I Get Back An Emotionally Unavailable Ex?

Question: Everything was so great the first 4 months of our relationship. He arranged dates, cooked me dinner and we made love almost every night. Then things changed. He started distancing himself, was working longer hours and had a lot of stress at work. We barely saw each other because he was always cancelling dates and never called when he [...]

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

Playing-hard-to-get is -- without any doubt -- one of the most effective ways of being "cool" in the dating ritual. But not everyone knows how to PLAY. Some men and women play naturally, others have taken time to relearn how to play but the majority of men and women JUST DON'T GET IT! More technically it goes like this: 1. Those who think [...]

Woman On Woman – Why Men Love Girl Catfights

Woman On Woman – Why Men Love Girl Catfights

Meow! Catfights are part of the feline charm -- or so they say. Keeping up with the slinky charm, I can be catty when the mood is right. But I'd rather go at it with the guys than with the girls. Why the preference? Guys go for the kill. Girls on the other hand, scratch, slap, pull hair and run away. Then they come back and scratch, slap, pull [...]

Why He/She Treats You Like You Are NOT Special

Why He/She Treats You Like You Are NOT Special

Question: You write in one of your articles that “we teach people how they treat us”. I somehow get what it means but do not know how it relates to my love life. I’ve been in several relationships but all ended because I felt that I was doing all the work in the relationship with not much input from the men. What hurt me most is that the [...]

When Does a Friend Become a Romantic Interest?

When Does a Friend Become a Romantic Interest?

Question: I recently met a guy on an online dating site. We chatted for three weeks and in all that time not once did I feel that butterflies in the stomach feeling. When he told me he was going to call me, two days before we spoke for the first time, I forgot about it until the phone rang. He said he was nervous but I was as calm as can be. When [...]

How Do You Love And Does It Show?

How Do You Love And Does It Show?

I had a free hour last night and used it to catch up on the Oprah Show. I don’t exactly remember who she was interviewing but they joked a lot about the phrase “Love is never having to say you’re sorry.” And Oprah said something to the effect “Love is always having to say you’re sorry!” How so true! Yet this is probably the [...]

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

Some break-ups are amicable and others are so nass-teey. Some people stay friends after a breakup, and others want to forget they ever knew each other's name. Then there are exes that say you are going to remain friends, but then they start acting really cold and mean? S/he sees you and quickly walks away or ignores you altogether, or s/he [...]

How to Strengthen the Emotional Connection With Your Ex

How to Strengthen the Emotional Connection With Your Ex

I was listening to two friends argue about which phone is better, an iphone or blackberry. I had heard and read well researched and informed logical and technical arguments for either side when deciding whether to move from my BB to an iphone. But what was very interesting about this conversation (and many similar "conversations" between iphone [...]

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