Saturday April 25th 2015

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

Tips For Giving Him/Her The Space He/She Needs

Tips For Giving Him/Her The Space He/She Needs

Having enough space or privacy in a relationship is more important for a couple's happiness than having a good sex life, says a resent US study on marriage. So why is space so important in a relationship? "When partners have their own set of interests, friends, and time for self, that makes them happier and less bored," says Dr Terri Orbuch [...]

Why Women Call And Text Men They’re Interested In

Why Women Call And Text Men They’re Interested In

There was a time when men were expected to make the first moves in courtship, but research suggests it is now women who take the lead, relentlessly pursuing lovers with phone calls and texts. A study of mobile phone traffic indicates that women are more intent than men on having a romantic relationship. "It's the first really strong evidence [...]

My Ex Plays Warm and Cold What Should I Do?

My Ex Plays Warm and Cold What Should I Do?

Question: My ex and I are back together but we’re still fighting. It was my idea to get back together, he agreed to work with me to create a better relationship than we had before. But since getting back together,  he is not holding up his part of the deal. So far I’m initiating all the contacts and arranging all the dates. He does not [...]

Why He/She Is Avoiding Talking To You

Why He/She Is Avoiding Talking To You

A partner who desires more change is much more likely to pressure the other for a change, while the partner who desires less change is more likely to avoid discussion of the problem or passively withdraw from the interaction. This is according to a recent study by Sarah Holley, SF State assistant professor of psychology who directs the [...]

5 Bad Boy Traits Women Find Irresistible – Pt 3

5 Bad Boy Traits Women Find Irresistible – Pt 3

Continued from Part 2 That was the bad news. Now, here is the GOOD NEWS for the nice guys (only). Believe it or not, that overgrown Boy Scout approach to women that everybody tells you is a liability... Nice Guys Finish Last... hmm, remember that?. That can actually be a mega advantage for you Mr. Nice Guy. You see, a jerk has the [...]

Women Incapable Of Recognizing High-Quality Men

Women Incapable Of Recognizing High-Quality Men

Females incapable of recognizing high-quality male can alter the behavior of mates of either sex and disrupt overall social structure, according to research published May 1, 2013 in the open access journal PLOS ONE. Actually the study talks about tone deaf "female cowbirds" incapable of recognizing high-quality "male songs" altering the [...]

7 Ways to Stay Motivated and Get Back Your Ex – Pt 2

7 Ways to Stay Motivated and Get Back Your Ex – Pt 2

Continued from Pt 1... If you want to achieve anything worthwhile, you have to teach yourself to be disciplined enough to stick with it long enough to see results. You have to complete the necessary steps to get there. But like with all things in life, you may from time to time at different stages of the process feel despair, lose [...]

Why Men Don’t Understand Women… Shhesh!

Why Men Don’t Understand Women… Shhesh!

A client asked me the other day: "Why can't men understand our feelings and emotions? Why can't they figure out what we women want?" For a few moments I sat silent with a smile on my face. I was reminded of yet another client I had a session with just a few days before. He'd been working with me for six months when he met a wonderful woman he [...]

Why Do Men Emotionally Pull Away?

Why Do Men Emotionally Pull Away?

Question: Yangki, my situation is similar to Jillian's. My ex also initiates contact but avoids emotionally difficult conversations. It hurts that he shuts me out of his life. He was never one for emotional conversations. Whenever I tried to talk to him about things that were important to me, he’d say he is going through a lot at work and [...]

What to Do When Your Ex Hasn’t Change – Pt. 2

What to Do When Your Ex Hasn’t Change – Pt. 2

Continued from Pt. 1 No. You are not supposed to take anything. Remember, no one is forcing you to remain in that relationship. If you are choosing to stay, it's YOUR choice. If you decide that you want to continue fighting for your relationship, understand that you will be the one required to change. I know, I know. Why should you be [...]

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