Saturday August 23rd 2014

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

How Do I Start A NEW Relationship With My Ex?

How Do I Start A NEW Relationship With My Ex?

Question: Yangki, I really want to buy your eBook because I love your articles and your approach to love and relationships. Can you clarify what you mean by "starting the relationship with your ex all over". My ex and I were together for 4 years. We've broken up several times but always found ourselves back with the other. I have no doubt she [...]

How Do You Know A Guy Is Into You?

How Do You Know A Guy Is Into You?

Question: I'm 28 and he's 37. We met at a bar. The chemistry was instant. I felt that we made a strong emotional connection and really saw into each other's soul. We talked about things we've never told anyone else. By the end of the night we were kissing and making out with some heavy hands on. We exchanged phone numbers and have been texting [...]

She Never Does Anything For Me Even When I Ask

She Never Does Anything For Me Even When I Ask

Question: Yangki, I’ve read your articles and absolutely love everything you have to say about love. I’m trying to be a more loving person in my romantic relationship and in life in general but it’s a real struggle. I used to be hard on myself because I didn’t love me but with a lot of work, I love myself more. I also try to be more loving [...]

How Do You Love And Does It Show?

How Do You Love And Does It Show?

I had a free hour last night and used it to catch up on the Oprah Show. I don’t exactly remember who she was interviewing but they joked a lot about the phrase “Love is never having to say you’re sorry.” And Oprah said something to the effect “Love is always having to say you’re sorry!” How so true! Yet this is probably the [...]

Do You Know How Your Ex Feels? (Pt. 2)

Do You Know How Your Ex Feels? (Pt. 2)

Click here to read (Pt.1) There are people who just feel bad about themselves no matter who they're with. They go from one man or woman to another looking to "feel good" but ultimately fail to find what they are looking for and either continue "looking" or end up bitter and resentful because nobody can make them feel good about [...]

Does She Love You Or Are You Wasting Your Time?

Does She Love You Or Are You Wasting Your Time?

Question: Three months, two dates every week and many expensive gifts but we’ve never been alone, just the two of us. It’s always one high-end party after another. Money is not a problem. I do quite well and take pleasure in making my woman happy. I also like her friends and they like me but it'd be nice to once in a while go out on a normal [...]

Women Incapable Of Recognizing High-Quality Men

Women Incapable Of Recognizing High-Quality Men

Females incapable of recognizing high-quality male can alter the behavior of mates of either sex and disrupt overall social structure, according to research published May 1, 2013 in the open access journal PLOS ONE. Actually the study talks about tone deaf "female cowbirds" incapable of recognizing high-quality "male songs" altering the [...]

Help! My Ex Is Afraid Of Getting Close To Anyone

Help! My Ex Is Afraid Of Getting Close To Anyone

Question: Yangki, my ex is emotionally damaged and afraid to get close to anyone. She had a rough childhood with an alcoholic mother and father who wasn't around. When she started pushing me away, she said she was scared I'd leave her. I told her I love her and wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. But then I found out she was seeing [...]

4 Things Emotionally Intelligent People Do

4  Things Emotionally Intelligent People Do

You've probably heard the saying "hurting people hurt people " or have been told "take the high road". But keeping positive in the face of consistent negativity is not an easy thing to do for even the most positively cheerful of us. Excessive criticism, put downs (veiled or otherwise) and passive-aggressive behaviour (where you feel that [...]

Does Your Long Distance Relationship Have A Chance?

Does Your Long Distance Relationship Have A Chance?

A man and a woman formed a romantic relationship as pen pals. They fell in love and decided to finally meet in person. The woman said, "I will be wearing a red scarf". When the young man arrived at the meeting place, there she was, in her red scarf, waiting. She was not at all what he had expected. She was much older and much shorter than he [...]

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