Wednesday July 23rd 2014

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

What Does She Mean By She Wants Me To Lead?

What Does She Mean By She Wants Me To Lead?

Question: My girlfriend of 2 years told me that she loves me but does not want a relationship with me because to her I don't fit the bill for what she wants in a guy. She says I’m intelligent, hard working, funny, have a kind, romantic and very loving and she loves all that about me but says I’m just not strong enough for her. She says she can [...]

59 Ways Men And Women Manipulate Their Partners

59 Ways Men And Women Manipulate Their Partners

I had to include this... just had to! A new study published by the European Journal of Personality, and conducted by Researches from the University of Western Sydney and Singapore Management University has found that the old adage -- treat them mean, keep them keen -- is not just a 1920's old wives' tale. The study identified 59 ways in [...]

Why Women Call And Text Men

Why Women Call And Text Men

There was once a time when men were expected to make the first moves in courtship, but research suggests it is now women who take the lead, relentlessly pursuing lovers with phone calls and texts. A study of mobile phone traffic indicates that women are more intent than men on having a romantic relationship. "It's the first really strong [...]

4 Must-Dos Before You Give Up On Your Ex – Pt 2

4 Must-Dos Before You Give Up On Your Ex – Pt 2

Please read 4 Must-Dos Before You Give Up On Your Ex - Pt 1 to fully appreciate the steps you need to take to get back your ex. I'll probably get a lot of grief from "victims" of selfish, emotionally detached, emotionally unavailable, jerk, narcissist, gold-digging etc exes, for even suggesting that a love-hate relationship can actually work. [...]

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

A client asked me the other day, “What would you do if your ex was playing mind games?” The “Love Coach” in me wanted to go straight to “advice mode” but then I remembered that I wasn’t always a love doctor. There was a time in my life when I did some things that were not so “loving”, and I write about this in my Dating Your [...]

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 1

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 1

This is probably the kind of article you will not enjoy reading because it's not about how many contacts you should be having with your ex, or what "right words" to say to your ex to make him/her take you back. And if you are one of "those people" who believes that others are responsible for the way you feel, for what they make you do, and for [...]

Do Guys Lose Interest If You Reveal Too Much?

Do Guys Lose Interest If You Reveal Too Much?

Question: I read your blog: The "Rules" and Playing Dating Mind Games. While I agree with some things you say, I do not think that women should be open and forthcoming in the first few dates. I’ve been out on great first few dates with a number of great guys but nothing that lasted for more than 3- 4 dates. The last guy I went out with was [...]

Why You Should Wait 0-6 Months Before Committing

Why You Should Wait 0-6 Months Before Committing

I understand how exciting it is to have finally found someone you think might be "the one". But before you commit to someone and to the relationship, make sure you aren't just giving in to sexual chemistry alone or acting on the promise of material gain, and ignoring the warning signs of potential problems, hurt and a broken heart. In our text, [...]

Why She’s Not Into You But So Into Him

Why She’s Not Into You But So Into Him

In my post “Can A Man With Zero Chance Of Attracting Women Find Love?” Patrick asked: “Yangki, I understand that it’s impossible to attract every woman I want. But can you please explain the sexual imprint a little more. Examples?” The Love Doctor’s Answer: I tried in the article you're refferring to: The Truth Dating and Seduction [...]

Are You Misinterpreting Your Ex’s Actions?

Are You Misinterpreting Your Ex’s Actions?

Fear of rejection and worry that someone might not love you enough is bound to create some level of concern and stress during the ups and downs of a relationship says a new study published in the journal Psychological Science. But fear of rejection or worry that someone will leave you does not only affect your mental well-being, it also affects [...]

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