Friday October 31st 2014

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

No.1 Reason You’re Not Making Progress With Your Ex

No.1 Reason You’re Not Making Progress With Your Ex

If you have been reading my articles for sometime now, you know that I believe that there is nothing more important when it comes to relationships than EMOTIONS and feelings. You could even describe all my body of work as about "emotions". Now, we can argue all we want about "rational" thinking and how it's more important than emotion, but at [...]

How Do I Start A NEW Relationship With My Ex?

How Do I Start A NEW Relationship With My Ex?

Question: Yangki, I really want to buy your eBook because I love your articles and your approach to love and relationships. Can you clarify what you mean by "starting the relationship with your ex all over". My ex and I were together for 4 years. We've broken up several times but always found ourselves back with the other. I have no doubt she [...]

Increasing Likeability Without Losing Yourself

Increasing Likeability Without Losing Yourself

I think it's safe to say that we're so interconnected that we need each other to survive. But just how much have we given thought to what this really means? How much do we need others? How much do they need us? Why do we even have relationships? The times I've had people tell me I am acting like "I don't need anyone/others" or called me the [...]

Have You Dumped This Guy? [Me Too!]

Have You Dumped This Guy? [Me Too!]

He opened the door to a sparsely furnished one bedroom apartment. It was clean, tidy and smelt good, but it was obvious -- this was a guy of very modest means. I was raised dirt poor and material things have never been an issue with me (owning two pairs of shoes, and eating three meals a day is "living rich" as far as I am concerned), but I was [...]

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

Some break-ups are amicable and others are so nass-teey. Some people stay friends after a breakup, and others want to forget they ever knew each other's name. Then there are exes that say you are going to remain friends, but then they start acting really cold and mean? S/he sees you and quickly walks away or ignores you altogether, or s/he [...]

Does Your Long Distance Relationship Have A Chance?

Does Your Long Distance Relationship Have A Chance?

A man and a woman formed a romantic relationship as pen pals. They fell in love and decided to finally meet in person. The woman said, "I will be wearing a red scarf". When the young man arrived at the meeting place, there she was, in her red scarf, waiting. She was not at all what he had expected. She was much older and much shorter than he [...]

New Study On Breaking Up And Getting Back Together

New Study On Breaking Up And Getting Back Together

January 22, 2013 - A new study finds that nearly half of older teenagers and young adults break up and get back together with previous dating partners and over half of this group have sex as part of the reconciliation process. This study was recently published in the Journal of Adolescent Research. Researchers Sarah Halpern-Meekin, Wendy [...]

5 Bad Boy Traits Women Find Irresistible – Pt 3

5 Bad Boy Traits Women Find Irresistible – Pt 3

Continued from Part 2 That was the bad news. Now, here is the GOOD NEWS for the nice guys (only). Believe it or not, that overgrown Boy Scout approach to women that everybody tells you is a liability... Nice Guys Finish Last... hmm, remember that?. That can actually be a mega advantage for you Mr. Nice Guy. You see, a jerk has the [...]

5 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex

5 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex

Communication is one of the top causes, if not, "the" top cause of break-ups. It's no surprise that "communicating with your ex" is one of the biggest challenges post break-up-- and also the most polarizing when it comes to how to get one's ex back. Some people believe no communication will make their ex miss them and want to come back. Others, [...]

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

Playing-hard-to-get is -- without any doubt -- one of the most effective ways of being "cool" in the dating ritual. But not everyone knows how to PLAY. Some men and women play naturally, others have taken time to relearn how to play but the majority of men and women JUST DON'T GET IT! More technically it goes like this: 1. Those who think [...]

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