Tuesday August 4th 2015

‘Healthy Attachment’ Archives

Why She Doesn’t Want To Talk To You

Why She Doesn’t Want To Talk To You

One of my very favourite pastimes is watch people interact with each other. The other day, I was at a party and saw this really gorgeous woman flash an enticing smile in the direction on a group of guys looking at her as she walked in. A few minutes later, a well-dressed guy, a drink in hand, sauntered over to the woman and said “Hi”. I was [...]

That Special Connection You Had With Your Ex

That Special Connection You Had With Your Ex

"We looked into each other's eyes and made a connection" "We had a special connection, it's like we knew each other" "I've never felt anything like this with anyone else" "He/she is like nobody I have ever met" These are some o the words many of my clients use to describe the relationship they had with their ex -- and I believe them [...]

Are You Misinterpreting Your Ex’s Actions?

Are You Misinterpreting Your Ex’s Actions?

Fear of rejection and worry that someone might not love you enough is bound to create some level of concern and stress during the ups and downs of a relationship says a new study published in the journal Psychological Science. But fear of rejection or worry that someone will leave you does not only affect your mental well-being, it also affects [...]

8 Simple Rules For Dating Your Ex

8 Simple Rules For Dating Your Ex

Dating your ex again isn't the same as dating someone new. You have a romantic history together and that changes the whole dynamics of approaching, asking for a date and entering into a relationship. One of the hardest things to do is figuring out which behaviours are proper and which are potentially damaging. Here are 8 simple rules that can [...]

The Risk You’re Taking With Low Or Limited Contact

The Risk You’re Taking With Low Or Limited Contact

Continued from: LC Hurting Your Chances... In my previous article I made it very clear that whether to do "no contact, "low contact", "high contact" and whatever else is your choice, and yours alone. Your relationship. Your heart. Your life! So please don't bombard me with passive aggressive "what do you have against giving your ex space?" [...]

What Does She Mean By She Wants Me To Lead?

What Does She Mean By She Wants Me To Lead?

Question: My girlfriend of 2 years told me that she loves me but does not want a relationship with me because to her I don't fit the bill for what she wants in a guy. She says I’m intelligent, hard working, funny, have a kind, romantic and very loving and she loves all that about me but says I’m just not strong enough for her. She says she can [...]

The Niceness Gene – It’s In Your DNA Study Says

The Niceness Gene – It’s In Your DNA Study Says

The next time someone complains that you are "nice", tilt your head sideways, and with raised eyebrows and a slight shoulder shrug tell them, "It's in my genes. I happen to have The Kindness and Generosity Gene!" The reason some people are kind and generous is because they are born kind, according to a study "The Neurogenics of Niceness," [...]

How Can I Make Her Feel Like She’s Chasing Me?

How Can I Make Her Feel Like She’s Chasing Me?

Question: I've been going out with this woman for 3 months now. She told me she wants what she can't have and that she loves to chase. She asked me to make her chase me more. I find this quite hard to do seeing that I already have her and she knows in the end she will still have me. I hope that makes sense. What can I do to make her feel like [...]

Does Acting Aloof Make You More Attractive?

Does Acting Aloof Make You More Attractive?

Question: I’ve been with a guy for a year and a few months. He’s very sweet and charming but can also be so cold and distant to a point where I resent him because then I want him so bad. This is when I do everything I know how to draw him closer but when he responds, I lose interest and start acting cold and aloof. He then becomes more [...]

Toxic Niceness — Are You Are Being Played?

Toxic Niceness — Are You Are Being Played?

Have you had someone say very nice things about you and instead of it making you feel "good', you feel really uncomfortable and even feel like throwing up? There's a name for it. Toxic nicenesss. It starts with a flattering compliment, usually telling you what a great individual you are, how different you are from anyone else and how much [...]

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