‘Commitment’ Archives
The Average Time It Takes To Get Back Your Ex
Whenever I'm asked for time frames concerning when one gets an ex back, my heart sinks. Why? Because every time we try to make love work in a specific way, at a specific time, in a specific sequence, it’s almost always certain that it’ll backfire on us -- and I can't tell you how many times I've seen it backfire on so many men and [...]
Does My Ex Have Commitment Issues?
Question: My ex broke up with me because she’s lost the passion in the relationship. Just two weeks ago she told me how much she loves me and wants to have my children. Now she says that she just doesn’t feel like she can marry me and needs some space to sort her feelings out. When I asked her if she could explain why she couldn’t marry me, [...]
On-And-Off Again Relationship – Time To Give Up?
I receive email questions from men and women, young and old, and from all walks of life who are in a relationship that on-again and off-again. Both people are in some ways hurting each other but the attraction and chemistry is so strong that they can’t imagine life without the other. It is as if they're locked in what I call “madness for [...]
Do You Know How Your Ex Feels? (Pt. 3)
Click here to read Pt. 2 Bottom line, relationships start with a feeling, are sustained by feelings and end because of how one or both people feel. If you can't get this very basic fact, you might as well say goodbye to your boyfriend/girlfriend or the ex you're trying to get back. Not only are you wasting your time, energy and money, but [...]
Do You Know How Your Ex Feels? (Pt. 1)
You may have read this many times in my writings: people want to be with us because of the way we make them feel about themselves. Selfish, you might think and that's understandable. We all like to think that someone is with us because of who we are and what we bring to the relationship, and to a larger degree that's so true. Who we are and [...]
Is My Ex Scared Of Her Feelings For Me?
Question: My now ex and I started dating about three months ago but last week she told me she didn’t want to continue the relationship. This all came as a shock to me. We never had any fights or major disagreements but the last few weeks before she broke it off, I noticed she was distant. Having had the time to look back, she started [...]
One Thing Your Ex May Be Right About You
Question: I read your posts " Is It Me Or is My Ex Emotionally Unavailable?" and I have a few questions to ask. How do you know it's about you and how do you know you are with an unavailable partner? I was with my ex-boyfriend for 2 years. We were happy for the first 2 months, after that I was unhappy. This is where I made a mistake, I started [...]
Does She Love Me or Am I Wasting My Time?
Question: Three months, two dates every week and many expensive gifts but we’ve never been alone, just the two of us. It’s always one high-end party after another. Money is not a problem. I do quite well and take pleasure in making my woman happy. I also like her friends and they like me but it'd be nice to once in a while go out on a normal [...]
Does My Boyfriend Have Doubts About Marrying Me?
Question: Very early on in our relationship we discussed marriage many times. I told him I would not date anyone for more than three months if the relationship had no signs of moving in the direction of marriage. He seemed to understand and even agree that that’s where we were heading. Well, we’ve been together for over two years and no [...]
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