Thursday May 17th 2012

‘No More Clingy & Needy’ Archives

Will My Ex’s Feelings For Me Ever Be Strong Again?

Will My Ex’s Feelings For Me Ever Be Strong Again?

Question:My ex says his feelings for me are not as strong as before and that he's sorry but he can't pretend anymore. He says some days he thinks he wants me back and other days he just wants to move on because he doesn’t know if he’ll ever feel strongly for me again. He told me not to wait for him or put my life on hold. I told him we can [...]

“Limited Contact” Vs. “Pressure-Free Contact”

“Limited Contact” Vs. “Pressure-Free Contact”

After receiving many comments and email questions asking if "limited contact" is the same as "pressure-free contact", I thought it best to write a brief post to explain the difference. First of all the two are not the same. 1. Quantity vs. Quality Limited Contact (LC) is about quantity. The assumption behind "limited contact" is that if [...]

Why Men and Women Run Away From You

Why Men and Women Run Away From You

You met this wonderful person and the first date is great. So is the second and third, but then he/she stops calling. You panic. When you manage to catch him/her on his/her cell, there is an awkward exchange and he/she ends the brief exchange with the excuse that he/she is too busy/ exhausted to talk or is currently going through an [...]

How Do I Tell My Ex How I Feel Without Scaring Her Away?

How Do I Tell My Ex How I Feel Without Scaring Her Away?

Question: My ex and I broke up two and half months ago. She said I cared more about myself, my needs and life than I did for her. In retrospect, I wasn’t the boyfriend I should have been. I tried to tell her I loved her but she said “there you go again. It’s always about you, your feelings, what you want!” That hit me hard because she [...]

Why Is It Driving Me Crazy That My Ex Has Someone New?

Why Is It Driving Me Crazy That My Ex Has Someone New?

Question: My ex and I broke up almost 4 months ago. Well, I broke up with him first because he just wasn't there for me and despite all my complaints he made no effort to spend time with me and treat me the way a man is supposed to treat his woman. He begged me to come back, said he gets it and promised he was going to change. I stupidly took [...]

My Ex Refuses to Talk to Me

My Ex Refuses to Talk to Me

Question: My ex says it's over and does not want to talk about the breakup anymore. After the breakup she responded to my texts and calls. Cold at first and then she warmed up a little. Our conversations were mostly pleasant. We talked about some  old memories and laughed. She even initiated contact once or twice. But when  I brought up getting [...]

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