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One [POWERFUL] Reason To Play Hard To Get
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Playing hard to get -- which some of us love to do and which in my humble opinion every man and woman should at least do or know how to do -- is a relationship dynamic based of the Law of Scarcity. The Law of Scarcity says, “scarcity determines the value of an item” meaning that, items are more valuable to us when their availability is [...]
10 Signs Your Ex Is Desperate
I've written so much about how "no contact" as a strategy to get an ex back is often an attempt by an ex to pull someone who has walked away back into an unhappy, unfulfilling, dysfunctional and even toxic relationship. When someone is using "no contact" to get you back, it is not an expression of caring and concern for you but an attempt [...]
How To Stop Over Thinking And Overanalyzing Your Relationship
An attractive co-worker or even perfect stranger says “hi” to you and you automatically start obsessing and analyzing every little body language. Why did she touch her hair; what does it mean if she also uncrosses her arms; is there a future for the relationship etc. A guy you’ve gone out with only three times isn’t acting like his [...]
The Average Time It Takes To Get Back An Ex
Whenever I'm asked for time frames concerning when one gets an ex back, my heart sinks. Why? Because every time we try to make love work in a specific way, at a specific time, in a specific sequence, it’s almost always certain that it’ll backfire on us -- and I can't tell you how many times I've seen it backfire on so many men and [...]
Why She’s Not Into You But So Into Him
In my post “Can A Man With Zero Chance Of Attracting Women Find Love?” Patrick asked: “Yangki, I understand that it’s impossible to attract every woman I want. But can you please explain the sexual imprint a little more. Examples?” The Love Doctor’s Answer: I tried in the article you're refferring to: The Truth Dating and Seduction [...]
Your Ex Confused About His/Her Feelings For You?
Lately, I'm getting more and more emails from men and women who say they've managed to move things forward to a point where they are in regular contact with their ex, and things even seem to be heading towards getting back together. But for some unknown reason, their ex is still confused about how they feel and what they want. Many of the emails [...]
Why Is It Driving Me Crazy That My Ex Has Someone New?
Question: My ex and I broke up almost 4 months ago. Well, I broke up with him first because he just wasn't there for me and despite all my complaints he made no effort to spend time with me and treat me the way a man is supposed to treat his woman. He begged me to come back, said he gets it and promised he was going to change. I stupidly took [...]
Why Do Men Always End Up Dumping Me?
Question: I'm 38, not married and I really want to be. I'm trying to meet suitable and I’m successful in the initial stage, but my relationships never last. As soon as I sense the slightest indication disinterest or withdrawal, I get really anxious and insistently call asking men why they haven’t called me or if I have done something to upset [...]
Are You Selfish For Feeling You’re Not Important?
Do you put your work, career or making money before the relationship? Do you sometimes feel selfish for thinking that your partner is putting his or her work, career or making money before the relationship? The feelings that you're not as important to your partner may not just be a selfish feeling. The findings of a research published Oct. [...]
Does My Girlfriend Want To Break Up With Me?
Question: Love Doctor I really need your help. Lately my girlfriend of four months and I have been having some relationship problems. It began when I complained that she was spending too much time at work during the week and wanting to hang out with her friends more than she does with me. Looking back, may be I should not have complained but I [...]
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