‘No More Clingy & Needy’ Archives
Help! Jealousy Is Ruining My Relationship
Question: Our relationship started on a strong friendship foundation. There was a real connection. But now we're fighting all the time. I have worked with many therapists to try to control my jealousy but it only gets better for a while then it’s a problem again. Now he does not want to be sexually intimate with me. He says that because of [...]
Are You Difficult To Love or Easy To Love?
One of the things I love about what I do is the sheer number of people I come in contact with on a daily basis. Most people who seek my help are mostly hurting people but even in their hurt, it’s so easy to spot men and women who are so easy to love and like, and those that one has to really struggle to like. The difference between easy to [...]
Why Your Ex Thinks You’re Needy And Clingy
If the person you are in a relationship with says "I need some space" or "I need time to find myself" or "Let's just be friends" or "We should see other people" or "Don't call me, I'll call you" or anything that suggests they are trying to pull away, it doesn't always mean they no longer love you. It usually means you're acting needy and being [...]
Helping Your Man Manage His Depression
Dealing with a depressed husband or boyfriend can be difficult, especially when his depression is creating all sorts of problems in your relationship. Sometimes knowing how your response helps or worsens the situation can be the difference between whether or not your relationship will weather the difficut times. "Trading places" is the most [...]
When Is Revealing Your Love Feelings A Bad Idea?
The email response to my post "If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?" has prompted me to write another post on this particular topic. For all of you who sent me emails, I appreciate everyone of your emails. I was able to respond to some but there just isn't enough time to respond to all. The general experience of most people is that being [...]
How To Move Your Relationship Forward Faster
How often have you met someone you’re so in love with and you wish, dream and pray that he or she is the person you’ll spend the rest of your days on earth with, then for some reason something happens inside of you and you find yourself rushing the relationship to a premature ending? My guess is quite a few times. And if you’re reading [...]
7 Tips For More Control In Your Relationship
Whether we admit it or not, we all want to have some degree of control in our relationships. Having control in our relationships makes us feel happy and fulfilled. But sometimes the need for control can turn us into controlling men and women -- and even control freaks. Is it possible to be in control without being [...]
Your Ex Confused About His/Her Feelings For You?
Lately, I'm getting more and more emails from men and women who say they've managed to move things forward to a point where they are in regular contact with their ex, and things even seem to be heading towards getting back together. But for some unknown reason, their ex is still confused about how they feel and what they want. Many of the emails [...]
Why Do Women Want A Man Who Plays Hard To Get?
Question: Women complain that men do not contact them after a date and play hard to get. But when they find a guy who shows them his true feelings and does not play hard to get they complain that he is too nice because he does not play hard to get. Most women I've dated start playing hard to get which is frustrating to guys like me not [...]
10 Silly Mind Games Your Ex Is Playing
A mind or mental game is nothing more than good old manipulation to get you to do what someone wants you to do but suspects or knows that you will not do willingly or unreservedly -- and for good reason. The whole purpose is to try to mess with your otherwise sane and reasonable head with "call me--- may be" signals. Here is the thing: If it [...]
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