‘No More Clingy & Needy’ Archives
Why You Love People Who Can’t Love You Back
Question: I respect your advice but I believe that "you can't love another person until you love yourself" mumbo jumbo is misguided and I think creates more problems in relationships than it solves. The whole point of being in a relationship is to love the other person. That love is not supposed to be directed at yourself but toward the person you [...]
One [POWERFUL] Reason To Play Hard To Get
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Playing hard to get -- which some of us love to do and which in my humble opinion every man and woman should at least do or know how to do -- is a relationship dynamic based of the Law of Scarcity. The Law of Scarcity says, “scarcity determines the value of an item” meaning that, items are more valuable to us when their availability is [...]
Why She Doesn’t Want To Talk To You
One of my very favourite pastimes is watch people interact with each other. The other day, I was at a party and saw this really gorgeous woman flash an enticing smile in the direction on a group of guys looking at her as she walked in. A few minutes later, a well-dressed guy, a drink in hand, sauntered over to the woman and said “Hi”. I was [...]
How To Stop Over Overanalyzing Your Relationship
An attractive co-worker or even perfect stranger says “hi” to you and you automatically start obsessing and analyzing every little body language. Why did she touch her hair; what does it mean if she also uncrosses her arms; is there a future for the relationship etc. A guy you’ve gone out with only three times isn’t acting like his [...]
Help! I’m Losing My Boyfriend – What Should I Do Pt.1
Question: My boyfriend and I have been together a good 5 years. But the last one and half years have been really hard on both of us. I started to sense that he was checking out of the relationship by noticing small things like I was the only one who called, the only one who made plans for the weekends, the only one who initiated talks on our [...]
What Makes Moving On After A Break-Up So Hard
You may be one of those people tired of people telling you that you should just get over your emotional pain (fear, frustration, anger, despair, disappointment, feelings of betrayal, broken heart etc) and move on. May be even been told that your pain and suffering is a choice and that you have the “power” to stop it with just the right [...]
Help! I Like Him But Not Sexually Attracted
Question: I' m seeing a guy who has almost all the qualities I look in a man but he is too nice and too needy. At first I enjoyed the attention. He was always buying me stuff, always attentive and there for me but now everything he does gets on my nerves. I want a strong and confident guy with a backbone but it seems that these days all the guys [...]
How Do I Tell My Ex I Don’t Want To Lose Her?
Question: My ex broke up with me and everything I've tried just gets her really angry with me. I never cheated or treated her mean in the 1.5 years we were together. We never had any major fights either but one day she just told me she doesn't see a future for us. I asked her to explain it but she said she didn't feel about me the way she wants [...]
Why Nothing You Do To Fix Your Relationship Is Working
Love is not supposed to hurt and relationships were never designed for us to suffer or struggle. But why do many of us struggle with relationships? When you fall in love, you want to believe that a loving connection will always be present in your relationship. You want the good times to last forever, but when the other person does not [...]
Why Won’t She Just Let Me Go?
Last night, I had a brief but interesting chat with a gentleman who approached me after hearing me introduced as a Love Doctor. “I wonder if you can help me with my situation” he said drawing me aside. "It's about a woman I've been seeing on and off for the last four years". For 20-or-so- minutes he told me about the woman he loves. The [...]
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