‘Clinging & Neediness’ Archives
How To Stop Over Thinking And Overanalyzing Your Relationship
An attractive co-worker or even perfect stranger says “hi” to you and you automatically start obsessing and analyzing every little body language. Why did she touch her hair; what does it mean if she also uncrosses her arms; is there a future for the relationship etc. A guy you’ve gone out with only three times isn’t acting like his [...]
Why The Man or Woman You Love Doesn’t Want You: Pt.4
If you asked me, “what’s the most frequently asked question men and women ask you as a love doctor?” I’d sum it up in three sentences 1) does he/she love me? 2) why did he/she stop loving me? 3) why can’t I stop loving him/her? Almost every man or woman who has tried to “find" love, been in love and lost someone he/she loved at [...]
Why Do Women Want A Man Who Plays Hard To Get?
Question: Women complain that men do not contact them after a date and play hard to get. But when they find a guy who shows them his true feelings and does not play hard to get they complain that he is too nice because he does not play hard to get. Most women I've dated start playing hard to get which is frustrating to guys like me not [...]
Behind Your Partner Or Ex’s Words: What They Definitely Don’t Want You To Know
One of the things I do and - I’ve long discovered - frustrates some of my clients is my insistence on “What exactly did he/she say, when, why and how did he/she say it?” Most respond with “I can’t remember the exact words… but I think he/she meant…” Some other responses include “Is it really that important?” or “It’s [...]
Acting Aloof and Distant To Make Someone Love You And Want You More
Question: I’ve been involved with a guy for a year and a few months. He’s very physically attractive, charming, witty and shares my interests and values. He's also one of the few people not afraid to point out my mistakes, which I really do value. But the relationship has its problems. I don’t want to call it toxic but there is definitely [...]
The Inside Scoop On How Your Ex Is Dealing With The Break-Up
You can tell a lot about how your ex is feeling and what he/she needs, not by the number of contacts/no contacts but HOW he/she says certain things is the theme of all my articles on attracting back your ex and also my eBook. I’m excited to see that there is research to back me up on this. A new study from the University of Arizona shows [...]
He’s Nice and I Really Like Him But I’m Not Sexually Attracted To Him
Question: I' m seeing a guy who has almost all the qualities I look in a man but he is too nice and too needy. At first I enjoyed the attention. He was always buying me stuff, always attentive and there for me but now everything he does gets on my nerves. I want a strong and confident guy with a backbone but it seems that these days all the guys [...]
I’m Tired Of Being The Perfect Woman Only To Be Dumped
Question: I'm 38, not married and I really want to be. I'm trying to meet suitable and I’m successful in the initial stage, but my relationships never last. As soon as I sense the slightest indication disinterest or withdrawal, I get really anxious and insistently call asking men why they haven’t called me or if I have done something to upset [...]
Why The Man or Woman You Love Doesn’t Want You: Pt.3
In part 2 of Why The Man or Woman You Love Doesn’t Want You, I briefly touched on why it’s important to learn to be excited about what IS. This is not easy when you have expectations of others and are always worrying and overanalyzing their every word and action. Just think about it. Every time you’ve felt rejected and unwanted by someone [...]
My Girlfriend Says She Wants to Talk – Does She Want To Break Up With Me?
Question: Love Doctor I really need your help. Lately my girlfriend of four months and I have been having some relationship problems. It began when I complained that she was spending too much time at work during the week and wanting to hang out with her friends more than she does with me. Looking back, may be I should not have complained but I [...]
