‘Chemistry and Attraction’ Archives
Interested Or Deceptively Flirting?
When it comes to assessing the romantic playing field -- who might be interested in whom -- men and women were shown to be equally good at gauging men's interest during an Indiana University study involving speed dating -- and equally bad at judging women's interest. Researchers expected women to have a leg up in judging romantic interest, [...]
You Don’t Have a Sense of Humour Because You Just Don’t Get It
Ask a group of women what qualities they look for in a guy, and “a sense of humor” is bound to show up on top of the list. It’s no wonder that most guys think “making her laugh” is a good way to impress her. They become instant comedians, entertainers and clowns all in attempt to try to impress women with how funny they are. In their [...]
Public Displays of Affection: Good For Your Love Life?
Bad news for anyone who regularly uses the phrase 'Get a room!' Public Displays of Affection (PDAs) look set to soar in 2010 -- and it's not just moonstruck teens who are indulging in bouts of public passion. Headed up by Barack and Michelle Obama, it's been an epic year for syrupy displays by celebrity couples. The world's most powerful [...]
He’s Nice and I Really Like Him But I’m Not Sexually Attracted To Him
Question: I' m seeing a guy who has almost all the qualities I look in a man but he is too nice and too needy. At first I enjoyed the attention. He was always buying me stuff, always attentive and there for me but now everything he does gets on my nerves. I want a strong and confident guy with a backbone but it seems that these days all the guys [...]
The Sound Of Seduction: When A Woman Naturally Lowers Her Voice
Flirtation may seem largely visual - the preening, the coy eye contact - but voice plays a role, too. Lowering your voice may be a means of demonstrating attraction, says Susan Hughes, assistant professor of psychology at Albright College in Reading, Pa., in a study, "Vocal and Physiological Changes in Response to the Physical Attractiveness of [...]
Love Mistake No 2. You Acted Out Of Fear And Will Probably Do It Again
If you always find yourself making Love Mistake No 1, chances are you’re also making Love Mistake No 2. That is, you act out of FEAR - and are controlled by fear - instead of acting out of love and have love direct all your words, actions and behaviours. What’s the difference? The difference is like night and day. Most people don’t [...]
The 10 Biggest Sex Turn-Ons For Men
A good majority of women have been programmed to think that men are self-regulated sex machines on stand-by mode. They’ve been told that a woman does not need to say or do anything to turn him on because he’s just waiting to pounce at the slightest provocation. Some women live with this erroneous thinking for the rest of their lives [...]
Moving It From Seduction To Attraction To A Relationship
One of the most frequesntly asked questions about the art of seduction is why it works for some people and not others. But before I can answer that question, I want to point out that there are two kinds of seduction. The one in which the art of seduction connotes sex appeal or sexual enticement using a specific series of smooth fast talking [...]
Why You Care What Others Think Of The Person You’re Dating
Many people like to think they have discriminating tastes when it comes to romantic interests. An Indiana University study, however, found that men and women are greatly influenced not only by what their friends think of their potential fling or relationship partner, but also by the opinions of complete strangers. "Humans don't exist in a [...]
The Chemistry Of Attraction: Will It Last Or Fade? Pt.3
So what do you think after reading about Jen and Tom's opposites attract love match and Karen and Greg's likes attract love match? Is better to be with someone who is our opposite or someone who is like us? The reality is that most of us prefer partners that are very like us in some areas (enough similarities to sustain a relationship long [...]
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