‘Cheating’ Archives
How Do You Start A NEW Relationship With Your Ex?
Question: Yangki, I really want to buy your eBook because I love your articles and your approach to love and relationships. Can you clarify what you mean by "starting the relationship with your ex all over". My ex and I were together for 4 years. We've broken up several times but always found ourselves back with the other. I have no doubt she [...]
Why You Should Forgive Already
Forgiveness has been on my mind lately. No, I am not hurting. And I have forgiven all I need to forgive, and hopefully have been forgiven for all the wrongs I've done to others. Hearing about and seeing so many relationships destroyed by emotional hurt and so many good and loving people kept apart by the struggle to forgive the other, may be the [...]
Is Your Break-Up Relationship Karma?
A client who had played mind games with her boyfriend was talking about how much she regrets what she had done and how she wishes she could take it back when out of no where she asked me "Do you believe in karma?" I didn't know exactly where she was going with the question, so I said, "Explain karma?" She said "Karma... like in if you do [...]
What To Do When You Find Out Your Ex Lied
Your ex tells you he/she is not ready to get back together just yet, and suggests that the two of keep in touch as friends and see where things go. So you are emailing or talking regularly and you feel that you're engaged in each other's lives once again. You're not back together but communication between the two of you is warm and friendly. [...]
Why Is Your Ex Acting So Mean And Cruel?
Some break-ups are amicable and others are so nass-teey. Some people stay friends after a breakup, and others want to forget they ever knew each other's name. Then there are exes that say you are going to remain friends, but then they start acting really cold and mean? S/he sees you and quickly walks away or ignores you altogether, or s/he [...]
Will He Leave Her If He Thinks He’s Losing Me?
Question: I'm 31 and have been dating a 44 yr old man for six months. He is still legally married and does all the other obligations of a husband and father to his kids but he hasn't had an intimate relationship with his wife for over a year. In the beginning he talked all the time about filing for a divorce but lately he seems to be [...]
Facebook Ruining Your Relationship?
As if maintaining a relationship isn’t difficult enough, now, human sexuality researcher and PhD candidate at the University of Guelph in Canada, Amy Muise, says Facebook contributes to relationship jealousy reports Discover News. The study, published in the CyberPsychology and Behaviour journal was inspired by stories Muise heard from [...]
THE SECRET: Your Ex’s Emotions (Pt. 3)
Click here to read Pt. 2... I'm not going to tell you that "talking to your ex's emotions" is easy, but I can tell you that everyone can and is capable of connecting with someone at the emotional level where that person feels that you really, really feel their hurt and pain. The catch is, until you are comfortable in your own emotional [...]
Is Your Ex Really Worth The Time And Effort?
Almost every relationship goes through a rough patch. Some relationships survive and others don't. Many factors contribute to whether the relationship will survive or crumble. Some of those factors I've listed in my article: 10 Top Indicators You'll Get Back Your Ex The other factor that is a consistent underlying theme in almost all my [...]
Facebook Unfriending Has Real Life Consequences
Unfriending someone on Facebook may be as easy as clicking a button, but a new study from the University of Colorado Denver shows the repercussions often reach far beyond cyberspace. "People think social networks are just for fun," said study author Christopher Sibona, a doctoral student in the Computer Science and Information Systems program [...]
















