‘Healing A Broken Heart’ Archives
How Do I Get Closure After A Breakup?
Sometimes people just drift apart for what looks like no apparent reason. Other times there were just too many fights, secrets, and sometimes actual dishonesty. Unspoken conflicts may eventually destroy a relationship. If you’re not quite sure what caused the break up, you can’t help but keep dwelling on it and it’ll take you much longer [...]
How To Get Back Your Ex When You’ve Hurt Her
Question: I broke up with my ex six weeks ago over something really stupid. We had dated for almost 1 year. We spent a lot of time together, enjoyed many of the same things and laughed a lot. I did something that at the time I thought that she over reacted but after really thinking about it, I can see she had a point and must have felt really [...]
On And Off Again Relationship – When It Is Time To Give Up?
I receive email questions from men and women, young and old, and from all walks of life who are in relationship that is neither moving forward nor behind, that is on-again and off-again, or one in which one or both people are in some ways hurting each other but the attraction and chemistry is so strong that they can’t imagine life without him [...]
My Ex Has Sex With Me But Wants Me To Move On
Question: I don’t know if you can help here. I am in an on and off relationship, we are currently off again. We’re good friends although she knows I want her back. She has told me that she wants me to move on and said several times that I should date other women. But in the same breath she says “I don’t know if this time I can handle [...]
Let Go To Hold On [Save Your Relationship!]
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Letting go to hold on?! What the... I know... reads like an oxymoron. But this is probably the only thing that'll save your struggling relationship, so please read on... A bird flies and rests on the shoulder of a girl playing in a field. It sings a lovely song. The girl likes the song very much and decides she wants to keep the bird for [...]
Do You Know How Your Ex Feels? (Pt. 1)
You may have read this many times in my writings: people want to be with us because of the way we make them feel about themselves. Selfish, you might think and that's understandable. We all like to think that someone is with us because of who we are and what we bring to the relationship, and to a larger degree that's so true. Who we are and [...]
I Want Her Back In My Life What Should I Do Now?
Question: I'm falling apart and really need your advice. My gf and I have been together for 2 years. We're both in our 30s, independent with great careers. About 4 months ago we started having arguments which led to spending less and less time together. So when she texted me in May saying we needed to talk, I assumed she was going to breakup [...]
Fight For Love Or Dump The Loser?
The people we are attracted to and often have a relationship with represent all the things we like and dislike about ourselves. When they reflect to us the qualities of ourselves we like, we are happy and everything is smooth sailing, but when they reflect the qualities of ourselves that we don't particularly like, we get defensive, [...]
I Said Mean Things How Do I Make Things Right Again?
Question: About year ago, I met a man I am very much attracted to. We hit it off right from the beginning. We were calling each other two to five times a day, seeing each other almost every other day and then suddenly things stalled. I've been doing most of the calling and arranging our time together, finally I told him I needed him to be the [...]
Why The End Of A Relationship Hurts So Much
Are you hurting because of a break-up? Do you feel like your world has come to an end? Can’t get over an old love? You are not weak or a loser and there is nothing wrong with you. According to a resent research published on Science Daily (Aug. 27, 2010), the events that end up being most important in our lives, the events that bring us [...]
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