‘Attract Back Your Ex’ Archives
Win Back Your Ex With Pressure-Free Contact
Your goal if you're trying to get back your ex should be to help your ex see how important -- and valuable -- your relationship was and is and want it - again. But communicating this to an ex can sometimes be like going to the dentist - you don't know what to expect once you get there, but you almost always assume that the process will be [...]
Why The End Of A Relationship Hurts So Much
Are you hurting because of a break-up? Do you feel like your world has come to an end? Can’t get over an old love? You are not weak or a loser and there is nothing wrong with you. According to a resent research published on Science Daily (Aug. 27, 2010), the events that end up being most important in our lives, the events that bring us [...]
How Do I Tell My Ex How I Feel Without Scaring Her Away?
Question: My ex and I broke up two and half months ago. She said I cared more about myself, my needs and life than I did for her. In retrospect, I wasn’t the boyfriend I should have been. I tried to tell her I loved her but she said “there you go again. It’s always about you, your feelings, what you want!” That hit me hard because she [...]
I Went No Contact Now My Ex Won’t Talk To Me
Question: We broke up because I was not spending time with her and not planning romantic things to do on weekends. She said she felt like she was putting in more effort than me and that I didn't care and she didn't feel like a priority. I failed to be really open about my feelings/fears with her, for the fear that she might be frightened away. It [...]
If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?
Some of you will say "Yes. absolutely" but most of you will probably say, "No! It'll scare them way." There is "secret code" out there which says if you tell someone how you feel, it'll drive them away. So everyone is holding their feelings close to the chest, literally. But guess what? The very people holding tightly on to their feelings are [...]
Why Just Sending Your Ex Texts Is Not Enough
If you've been reading my blog and have my eBooks, by now you know I'm all for keeping contact with your ex, if you want him or her back. You cut off contact you cut the connection. Trying to recover that connection later on will be much harder than you can imagine. But just mere contact for the sake of contact isn't enough to keep the [...]
10 Signs Your Ex Is Desperate
I've written so much about how "no contact" as a strategy to get an ex back is often an attempt by an ex to pull someone who has walked away back into an unhappy, unfulfilling, dysfunctional and even toxic relationship. When someone is using "no contact" to get you back, it is not an expression of caring and concern for you but an attempt [...]
How To Stop Over Thinking And Overanalyzing Your Relationship
An attractive co-worker or even perfect stranger says “hi” to you and you automatically start obsessing and analyzing every little body language. Why did she touch her hair; what does it mean if she also uncrosses her arms; is there a future for the relationship etc. A guy you’ve gone out with only three times isn’t acting like his [...]
The Average Time It Takes To Get Back An Ex
Whenever I'm asked for time frames concerning when one gets an ex back, my heart sinks. Why? Because every time we try to make love work in a specific way, at a specific time, in a specific sequence, it’s almost always certain that it’ll backfire on us -- and I can't tell you how many times I've seen it backfire on so many men and [...]
Can Someone Get Back An Ex Who Is Not In Love Anymore?
Question: My girlfriend says she still loves me but is not in love with me. She says when we first met we clicked in every way; we talked all the time, conversation flowed with ease and she loved being with me. Now everything is just so boring and I’ve become too clingy and needy. I personally don’t think I’ve changed from the person she [...]
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