‘Ask The Love Doctor’ Archives
Why Just Sending Your Ex Texts Is Not Enough
If you've been reading my blog and have my eBooks, by now you know I'm all for keeping contact with your ex, if you want him or her back. You cut off contact you cut the connection. Trying to recover that connection later on will be much harder than you can imagine. But just mere contact for the sake of contact isn't enough to keep the [...]
My Ex Wants Space What Should I Do?
Question: My girlfriend broke with me a month ago. We had some bitter disagreement and she said she wanted a break “to think” because she was too stressed. I told her we both needed a break. After waiting a month I contacted her. She says she still loves me and that there is a good chance that we will get back together but she does not want to [...]
Why Is My Ex So Cold Towards Me?
Question: Me and my ex boyfriend of 2 years are both in our late 30s. Everything was good and then he became very moody, started ignoring me, got upset with me for no reason and wouldn’t talk to me. When I asked him what was going on he told me he didn’t want to be with me anymore. I was completely devastated and asked him why. He told me he [...]
Is It Normal To Feel Guilty For Ending A Toxic Relationship?
Question: We were lovers for over 7 years. Looking back now, we shouldn’t have been together for that long. Two years ago I underwent a major spiritual shift and realized that we were toxic for each other and brought out the worst of the other. We tried to work things out with lots of counseling but nothing we tried worked. It’d would look [...]
Can An Emotionally Unavailable and Cold Person Change?
Question: May be you can help me. My boyfriend complains that I am emotionally detached and wall him off at times and not let him in. He says that when we’re in public I come across as very unfriendly and unapproachable. I’ve been told by other people that I'm cold and aloof and not caring enough. Obviously there must be some truth [...]
What’s The Right Amount Of Contact With Your Ex?
I'm always looking for ways to help as many people as possible clarify what's going on in their relationship dynamic. A question and answer discussion on my post Ex Came Back With No Contact – NC Works inspired me to shade a little more light on a common dynamic in many "get back ex" situations. Bruce: NC worked for me. I went NC for 3 weeks [...]
Is Your Break-Up Relationship Karma?
A client who had played mind games with her boyfriend was talking about how much she regrets what she had done and how she wishes she could take it back when out of no where she asked me "Do you believe in karma?" I didn't know exactly where she was going with the question, so I said, "Explain karma?" She said "Karma... like in if you do [...]
Why Is My Ex Acting So Nice?
Question: My ex did not care about my feelings when we were together. He treated me like I was not going anywhere, and he could do whatever he likes. Now that we’re not together he’s being so unbelievably sweet and caring. He has admitted that he was wrong in the way he treated me in the relationship and apologized for being such "a fool". He [...]
My Ex Contacted Me How Do I Respond?
Question: My girlfriend of 2yrs decided 5 weeks ago that she wanted “a break” with no contact. I was rather surprised and crushed that she broke up with me. We had a great relationship even with it’s ups and downs. A couple of weeks before the breakup she had said she felt she was losing the attraction and after talking to her, she agreed it [...]
What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games
A client asked me the other day, “What would you do if your ex was playing mind games?” The “Love Coach” in me wanted to go straight to “advice mode” but then I remembered that I wasn’t always a love doctor. There was a time in my life when I did some things that were not so “loving”, and I write about this in my Dating Your [...]
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