‘Ask The Love Doctor’ Archives
Is He Into Me Or Is It Too Early To Tell?
Question: I'm 28 and he's 37. We met at a bar. The chemistry was instant and before long we were talking about things we've never told anyone else. I felt that we made a strong emotional connection and really saw into each other's soul. By the end of the night we were kissing and making out with some heavy petting. We exchanged phone numbers and [...]
I’m Not High On My Girlfriend’s List Of Priorities
Question: I broke it off with my gf because she I feel like I'm at the bottom of my her priority list. When we're together just the two of us everything is great but the moment someone calls it's like I'm not there. She's stood me up on dates more than I can count. The incident that caused the breakup is when she failed to turn up at my mom's [...]
How To Get Back Your Ex When You’ve Hurt Her
Question: I broke up with my ex six weeks ago over something really stupid. We had dated for almost 1 year. We spent a lot of time together, enjoyed many of the same things and laughed a lot. I did something that at the time I thought that she over reacted but after really thinking about it, I can see she had a point and must have felt really [...]
Does It Mean My Ex Has Moved On If She’s Dating Again?
Question: I am inspired by your answers. I don't know if my situation will work out. We had an informal, non-date dinner where I attempted to find out what is going on in my ex's life. She said she does not want to give me false hope. “You know I am dating again” or "going out on dates", I forget the exact words. My question is: Can I ask her [...]
How Do I Stop Acting Needy and Pushing Too Hard?
Question: I'm currently in a long distance relationship. We live in different countries. We met on a dating site and kept in contact via email, text and phone for 4 months. We met in person for the first time last month and it was instant fireworks. Since meeting in person, our relationship has changed a lot; some of it is for the better but most [...]
Should I Get Back With An Ex Who Cheated?
Question: I broke up with boyfriend of 3 years 7 weeks ago when I found out he had cheated with another woman. He apologized but I was so hurt that I broke up with him. He kept in touch sending me emails and doing all he can do to get me back. He says he understands how much he hurt me and will do anything to make it up to me. My friends say I’m [...]
How To Stop The Silent Treatment
Question: We got in a heated argument but after realizing that it was about nothing important, I apologized. We had sex afterwards. Next morning, I woke up and found him already up and about to leave for work. I said good morning but no response. I asked him what was wrong and he said he had an important meeting that morning. At lunch time, I [...]
Is My Ex Still In Love With Me But Won’t Admit It?
Question: Three weeks ago I contacted my ex about some important documents. I went to pick up the documents and we ended up going out for dinner. A month ago she wouldn't return any of my calls. We have had many phone conversation mostly about business, family and mutual friends. When we talk I’m cheerful, confident and relaxed because I want [...]
My Ex Has Sex With Me But Wants Me To Move On
Question: I don’t know if you can help here. I am in an on and off relationship, we are currently off again. We’re good friends although she knows I want her back. She has told me that she wants me to move on and said several times that I should date other women. But in the same breath she says “I don’t know if this time I can handle [...]
Rape Fantasies, Violent Sex – Is She Asking For It?
Question: I really liked your answer to the sexually invisible Nice Guy. No, I do not carry my girlfriend's purse and I do not write her friends little cute cards, but I am definitely a Nice Guy. This may be the reason I'm in this sexual rut. My girlfriend is a great person but we just have no sex life. She says all I think about is sex and that [...]













