Thursday February 9th 2012

‘Ask The Love Doctor’ Archives

Will He Divorce Her If He Thinks He’s Losing Me?

Will He Divorce Her If He Thinks He’s Losing Me?

Question: I'm 31 and have been dating a 44 yr old man for six months. He is still legally married and does all the other obligations of a husband and father to his kids but he hasn't had an intimate relationship with his wife for over a year. In the beginning he talked all the time about filing for a divorce but lately he seems to be [...]

Does My Boyfriend Have Doubts About Marrying Me?

Does My Boyfriend Have Doubts About Marrying Me?

Question: Very early on in our relationship we discussed marriage many times. I told him I would not date anyone for more than three months if the relationship had no signs of  moving in the direction of marriage. He seemed to understand and even agree that that’s where we were heading. Well, we’ve been together for over two years and no [...]

I Regret Breaking Up With My Ex – How Do I Get Him Back?

I Regret Breaking Up With My Ex – How Do I Get Him Back?

Question: My ex was shocked and very upset when I broke up with him. He said he had no idea things were that bad. For months I tried to tell him I was not happy with the way things were between us but he always dismissed it and didn't want to talk about the relationship. I finally broke up with him, once I realized how miserable I would [...]

Can An Emotionally Unavailable and Cold Person Change?

Can An Emotionally Unavailable and Cold Person Change?

Question: May be you can help me. My boyfriend complains that I am emotionally detached and wall him off at times and not let him in. He says that when we’re in public I come across as very unfriendly and unapproachable. I’ve been told by other people that I'm cold and aloof and not caring enough. Obviously there must be some truth [...]

5 Common Signs A Man Or Woman Is Playing You

5 Common Signs A Man Or Woman Is Playing You

Question: I met him on one of my business trips. I’m 43, he’s 34. The chemistry was instant and strong. He asked for my number and he immediately called me. Soon after that we started seeing each other every other every, spending some nights at my place and some nights at his. We both have very busy lives but we always found time to be with [...]

Will My Ex’s Feelings For Me Ever Be Strong Again?

Will My Ex’s Feelings For Me Ever Be Strong Again?

Question:My ex says his feelings for me are not as strong as before and that he's sorry but he can't pretend anymore. He says some days he thinks he wants me back and other days he just wants to move on because he doesn’t know if he’ll ever feel strongly for me again. He told me not to wait for him or put my life on hold. I told him we can [...]

Did Your Ex Suddenly Stop Loving You?

Did Your Ex Suddenly Stop Loving You?

Question: We’ve been together for more than 3 years. We had miscommunication problems, but I always felt like we understood each other. That’s why I was shocked when she called me with "lets take a break”. I didn’t see it coming at all. I have emails from her from 2 days earlier saying how much she loved me, so how did she suddenly fall [...]

How A Strong Successful Woman Can Attract A Good Man

How A Strong Successful Woman Can Attract A Good Man

Question: I’m sure you’ve been asked this question many times. I’m a successful independent career woman with everything I want except for a stable relationship with a loving man. At one time I worked with a love coach who told me that men unless they are feminine energy men lose "respect" (translate attraction) for successful women [...]

Help! I Like Him But Not Sexually Attracted

Help! I Like Him But Not Sexually Attracted

Question: I' m seeing a guy who has almost all the qualities I look in a man but he is too nice and too needy. At first I enjoyed the attention.  He was always buying me stuff, always attentive and there for me but now everything he does gets on my nerves. I want a strong and confident guy with a backbone but it seems that these days all the guys [...]

Why Is My Ex So Cold Towards Me?

Why Is My Ex So Cold Towards Me?

Question: Me and my ex boyfriend of 2 years are both in our late 30s. Everything was good and then he became very moody, started ignoring me, got upset with me for no reason and wouldn’t talk to me. When I asked him what was going on he told me he didn’t want to be with me anymore. I was completely devastated and asked him why. He told me he [...]

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