‘Ask The Love Doctor’ Archives
Help! Jealousy Is Ruining My Relationship
Question: Our relationship started on a strong friendship foundation. There was a real connection. But now we're fighting all the time. I have worked with many therapists to try to control my jealousy but it only gets better for a while then it’s a problem again. Now he does not want to be sexually intimate with me. He says that because of [...]
Does My Ex Have Commitment Issues?
Question: My ex broke up with me because she’s lost the passion in the relationship. Just two weeks ago she told me how much she loves me and wants to have my children. Now she says that she just doesn’t feel like she can marry me and needs some space to sort her feelings out. When I asked her if she could explain why she couldn’t marry me, [...]
Why Do Women Think I’m Creepy?
Question: I've been looking at your articles and really like your unique and fresh perspective on sexual energy and masculine and feminine confidence. But there's one issue I experience that I need some insight into. I've been the nice guy before, who's often told "I like you as a friend." I realized that by avoiding sending out sexual vibes [...]
Is My Co-Worker Flirting Or Leading Me On?
Question: She’s 36 and I am 31 and we work for the same company. We went out for a couple of dates and both times had a great time. There was a lot of passionate kissing but no sex involved. I asked her if she’d like to go out for a third date and she said she’ll think about it. To cut the long story short, that was three weeks ago. She [...]
She Loves Me But She’s Not Over Her Ex
Question: I'm 54 and she’s 42. We had an immediate attraction and talked on the phone a few times, hang out with each other and after a month or so ended up in a physical relationship. At the time she was separated from her long time boyfriend so we had no expectations and no strings attached. Four months into the relationship she told me she [...]
If He Loves Me Why Hasn’t He Proposed?
Question: My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years now. Our relationship is great in that we do not fight or have bad arguments. He has introduced me to his family and to his friends and they know me as his girl. But I feel like we are neither here nor there. I’ve given him all the nonverbal hints that I want him to [...]
Does Acting Aloof Make You More Attractive?
Question: I’ve been involved with a guy for a year and a few months. He’s very physically attractive, charming, witty and shares my interests and values. He's also one of the few people not afraid to point out my mistakes, which I really do value. But the relationship has its problems. I don’t want to call it toxic but there is definitely [...]
How To Stop Your Ex’s “No Contact Rule”
For whatever reason, you were not happy in the relationship and decided to end it. The next thing you know - your ex has completely cut you off. They unfriended you, blocked you, won't respond to your texts and will not pick up the phone. It's like he/she disappeared off the face of the earth. No reason. No explanation. Nothing. Should you fall [...]
What’s The Best Way To Get My Ex To Talk To Me?
Question: I am finding myself in a situation where my ex flies into a range every time I ask her why we broke up. She just came out from the blue one evening after we returned from a friend's house and said, " I can't do this anymore. This relationship is sucking the life out of me."We had not had a fight or argument that day or even days before [...]
What Are My Chances Of Getting My Ex Back?
Question: My ex broke up with me just before Christmas. I admit I did all the things I should not have done. I begged, pleaded, told her I love her, texted her every hour and called her so many times. After reading advice from others I went into no contact for two and half months. I did not contact her at all and she did not try to contact me [...]
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