‘Ask The Love Doctor’ Archives
I’m I Wasting My Time With Her?
Question: Three months, two dates every week and many expensive gifts but we’ve never been alone, just the two of us. It’s always one high-end party after another. Money is not a problem. I do quite well and take pleasure in making my woman happy. I also like her friends and they like me but it'd be nice to once in a while go out on a normal [...]
My Ex Says It’s Over – Am I In Denial?
Question: She felt very unhappy in the relationship and left because she needed some space to find her own happiness. A month ago I contacted her and tried to convince her that we can make it work. She said there is just something that feels that we’re not right for each other and she’s so tired and just doesn't have the energy to keep [...]
Why Do Women Want A Man Who Plays Hard To Get?
Question: Women complain that men do not contact them after a date and play hard to get. But when they find a guy who shows them his true feelings and does not play hard to get they complain that he is too nice because he does not play hard to get. Most women I've dated start playing hard to get which is frustrating to guys like me not [...]
How Do I Love Someone Who Annoys Me?
Question: Yangki, I’ve read your articles and absolutely love everything you have to say about love. I’m trying to be a more loving person in my romantic relationship and in life in general but it’s a real struggle. I used to be hard on myself because I didn’t love me but with a lot of work, I love myself more. I also try to be more loving [...]
My Ex Wants Space What Should I Do?
Question: My girlfriend broke with me a month ago. We had some bitter disagreement and she said she wanted a break “to think” because she was too stressed. I told her we both needed a break. After waiting a month I contacted her. She says she still loves me and that there is a good chance that we will get back together but she does not want to [...]
Is He Shy Or Just Likes Me As A Friend
Question: I loved your article, The Best Men Are Often Too Shy To Chase Women - They Need A Little Help From You. It’s the best I’ve read on shy men. I met a guy I’m very attracted to; 38, divorced with no kids. I’m 40 divorced with one son. He and my brother-in- law co-own an investment firm. One day my brother-in-law jokingly suggested [...]
Why Do I Attract Psycho Crazy Women?
Question: I seem to have this knack for attracting troubled, emotionally unstable, psycho crazy women. They seem pretty normal when I start out with them then they start getting kinda bizarre, then really, really insane. There was this crazy woman I had a downright mentally deranged dangerous two year relationship with. The psycho rollercoaster [...]
Should I Break Up With My Boyfriend?
Question: My boyfriend and I have been having a rough patch in our relationship. We’ve been together for four years but the last one year has really been very difficult. He got laid off and has not been able to get a stable job since. He has become withdrawn and not the fun loving man I knew him to be. Whenever I ask him about us, he just says, [...]
How Can I Make Her Feel Like She’s Chasing Me?
Question: I've been going out with this woman for 3 months now. She told me she wants what she can't have and that she loves to chase. She asked me to make her chase me more. I find this quite hard to do seeing that I already have her and she knows in the end she will still have me. I hope that makes sense. What can I do to make her feel like [...]
How Can I Hold On To My Boyfriend?
Question: Thank you for everything you're doing. This is by far the best advice site and blog on authentic relationships. My story in brief is that for 3 years I have been hiding my true feelings, lying about who I’m with and where I’ve been and generally playing mind games with this one man whom I love very much. I just don’t know how [...]
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