‘Ask The Love Doctor’ Archives
Why Do I Still Think About My Ex?
Question: I broke up with my ex more than a year ago but I still think of him. I know that I don't regret breaking up with him because he cheated not once but twice. The second time with my best friend. The first few months after our breakup were particularly hard. I cried a lot and also thought of him ex all the time. he was always in my dreams [...]
Does She Love Me or Am I Wasting My Time?
Question: Three months, two dates every week and many expensive gifts but we’ve never been alone, just the two of us. It’s always one high-end party after another. Money is not a problem. I do quite well and take pleasure in making my woman happy. I also like her friends and they like me but it'd be nice to once in a while go out on a normal [...]
Does Acting Aloof Make You More Attractive?
Question: I’ve been involved with a guy for a year and a few months. He’s very physically attractive, charming, witty and shares my interests and values. He's also one of the few people not afraid to point out my mistakes, which I really do value. But the relationship has its problems. I don’t want to call it toxic but there is definitely [...]
Will He Leave Her If He Thinks He’s Losing Me?
Question: I'm 31 and have been dating a 44 yr old man for six months. He is still legally married and does all the other obligations of a husband and father to his kids but he hasn't had an intimate relationship with his wife for over a year. In the beginning he talked all the time about filing for a divorce but lately he seems to be [...]
A New Type of Masculinity Or Simply BS?
Question: Upfont, I know the statistics, studies and all of that stuff, I just want to know if I'm on the right track or may be I just don't get it. I'm a 37 year old masculine attractive man but I've never been in a relationship for more than a few weeks. I could be wrong but I think the reason why women don’t find me attractive is because [...]
Help! I’m Losing My Boyfriend – What Should I Do? Pt. 2
Continues from Pt 1 When we’re threatened with the possibility of losing someone we love, we often don't see the things in front of us including how our own words and actions may be more self-destructing than helpful. This is especially true when you feel like what you worked hard to build (and keep) is slipping through your fingers and [...]
Will My Ex’s Feelings For Me Ever Be Strong Again?
Question:My ex says his feelings for me are not as strong as before and that he's sorry but he can't pretend anymore. He says some days he thinks he wants me back and other days he just wants to move on because he doesn’t know if he’ll ever feel strongly for me again. He told me not to wait for him or put my life on hold. I told him we can [...]
How Do I Get My Ex To Trust Me Again?
Question: She canceled on our date last minute saying there was something she needed to do and would tell me later. I called her friends and discovered she was with her ex. I sent her a text telling her I knew who she was with. She texted back, “I’ll talk to you later.” I sent her a text "Why did you not tell me it was him?" No [...]
“Limited Contact” Vs. “Pressure-Free Contact”
After receiving many comments and email questions asking if "limited contact" is the same as "pressure-free contact", I thought it best to write a brief post to explain the difference. First of all the two are not the same. 1. Quantity vs. Quality Limited Contact (LC) is about quantity. The assumption behind "limited contact" is that if [...]
Does My Boyfriend Have Doubts About Marrying Me?
Question: Very early on in our relationship we discussed marriage many times. I told him I would not date anyone for more than three months if the relationship had no signs of moving in the direction of marriage. He seemed to understand and even agree that that’s where we were heading. Well, we’ve been together for over two years and no [...]







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