‘Ask The Love Doctor’ Archives
Help! I’m In Love With Two Women At The Same Time
Question: We have been happily married for 9 years and have two wonderful children. Four months ago I ran into my high school sweetheart and my first love and now my life has been turned upside down. My feelings for her have not changed at all. Don’t get me wrong, I love my wife very much. She is my soul mate. We have a good marriage [...]
Is He Shy Or Just Likes Me As A Friend To Hang Out With?
Question: I loved your article, The Best Men Are Often Too Shy To Chase Women - They Need A Little Help From You. It’s the best I’ve read on shy men. I met a guy I’m very attracted to; 38, divorced with no kids. I’m 40 divorced with one son. He and my brother-in- law co-own an investment firm. One day my brother-in-law jokingly suggested [...]
I Want My Ex Back But My Ex Has Moved On Now What?
Question: Me and my ex boyfriend of 2 years are both in our late 30s. Everything was good and then he became very moody, started ignoring me, got upset with me for no reason and wouldn’t talk to me. When I asked him what was going on he told me he didn’t want to be with me anymore. I was completely devastated and asked him why. He told me he [...]
Acting Aloof and Distant To Make Someone Love You And Want You More
Question: I’ve been involved with a guy for a year and a few months. He’s very physically attractive, charming, witty and shares my interests and values. He's also one of the few people not afraid to point out my mistakes, which I really do value. But the relationship has its problems. I don’t want to call it toxic but there is definitely [...]
When Does Attraction Become Sexual Attraction?
Question: I recently met a guy on an online dating site. We chatted for three weeks and in all that time not once did I feel that butterflies in the stomach feeling. When he told me he was going to call me, two days before we spoke for the first time, I forgot about it until the phone rang. He said he was nervous but I was as calm as can be. When [...]
Signs Your Ex Is Becoming Interested Again
Question: I just wanted to say thanks for all the advice, it is truly a great help. I am in a situation with an ex where I am not sure what it all means. My ex broke up with me in April of 09. We both agreed that we’d stay in contact. During all that time I messaged him once every week or every other week and sometimes he'd respond and sometimes [...]
Rape Fantasies, Violent Sex – Is She Asking For It?
Question: I really liked your answer to the sexually invisible Nice Guy. No, I do not carry my girlfriend's purse and I do not write her friends little cute cards, but I am definitely a Nice Guy. This may be the reason I'm in this sexual rut. My girlfriend is a great person but we just have no sex life. She says all I think about is sex and that [...]
Why Do I Attract Psycho Crazy Women?
Question: I seem to have this knack for attracting troubled, emotionally unstable, psycho crazy women. They seem pretty normal when I start out with them then they start getting kinda bizarre, then really, really insane. There was this crazy woman I had a downright mentally deranged dangerous two year relationship with. The psycho rollercoaster [...]
He’s Nice and I Really Like Him But I’m Not Sexually Attracted To Him
Question: I' m seeing a guy who has almost all the qualities I look in a man but he is too nice and too needy. At first I enjoyed the attention. He was always buying me stuff, always attentive and there for me but now everything he does gets on my nerves. I want a strong and confident guy with a backbone but it seems that these days all the guys [...]
How Do I Make My Clueless Unromantic Boyfriend Romantic?
Question: Interesting tips ] but I can't see me doing it with my boyfriend. Besides the fact that we see each other only on weekends, my boyfriend has no romantic bone in him. I don't know if I am doing things the wrong way or that he just doesn’t get it. I’ve tried subtle ways to teach him but it's like he has no clue! I love him so much and [...]
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