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Should I Break Up With My Boyfriend?
Question: My boyfriend and I have been having a rough patch in our relationship. We’ve been together for four years but the last one year has really been very difficult. He got laid off and has not been able to get a stable job since. He has become withdrawn and not the fun loving man I knew him to be. Whenever I ask him about us, he just says, [...]
How Can I Make Her Feel Like She’s Chasing Me?
Question: I've been going out with this woman for 3 months now. She told me she wants what she can't have and that she loves to chase. She asked me to make her chase me more. I find this quite hard to do seeing that I already have her and she knows in the end she will still have me. I hope that makes sense. What can I do to make her feel like [...]
How Can I Hold On To My Boyfriend?
Question: Thank you for everything you're doing. This is by far the best advice site and blog on authentic relationships. My story in brief is that for 3 years I have been hiding my true feelings, lying about who I’m with and where I’ve been and generally playing mind games with this one man whom I love very much. I just don’t know how [...]
Help! Jealousy Is Ruining My Relationship
Question: Our relationship started on a strong friendship foundation. There was a real connection. But now we're fighting all the time. I have worked with many therapists to try to control my jealousy but it only gets better for a while then it’s a problem again. Now he does not want to be sexually intimate with me. He says that because of [...]
Does My Ex Have Commitment Issues?
Question: My ex broke up with me because she’s lost the passion in the relationship. Just two weeks ago she told me how much she loves me and wants to have my children. Now she says that she just doesn’t feel like she can marry me and needs some space to sort her feelings out. When I asked her if she could explain why she couldn’t marry me, [...]
Why Do Women Think I’m Creepy?
Question: I've been looking at your articles and really like your unique and fresh perspective on sexual energy and masculine and feminine confidence. But there's one issue I experience that I need some insight into. I've been the nice guy before, who's often told "I like you as a friend." I realized that by avoiding sending out sexual vibes [...]
Is My Co-Worker Flirting Or Leading Me On?
Question: She’s 36 and I am 31 and we work for the same company. We went out for a couple of dates and both times had a great time. There was a lot of passionate kissing but no sex involved. I asked her if she’d like to go out for a third date and she said she’ll think about it. To cut the long story short, that was three weeks ago. She [...]
She Loves Me But She’s Not Over Her Ex
Question: I'm 54 and she’s 42. We had an immediate attraction and talked on the phone a few times, hang out with each other and after a month or so ended up in a physical relationship. At the time she was separated from her long time boyfriend so we had no expectations and no strings attached. Four months into the relationship she told me she [...]
If He Loves Me Why Hasn’t He Proposed?
Question: My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years now. Our relationship is great in that we do not fight or have bad arguments. He has introduced me to his family and to his friends and they know me as his girl. But I feel like we are neither here nor there. I’ve given him all the nonverbal hints that I want him to [...]
Does Acting Aloof Make You More Attractive?
Question: I’ve been involved with a guy for a year and a few months. He’s very physically attractive, charming, witty and shares my interests and values. He's also one of the few people not afraid to point out my mistakes, which I really do value. But the relationship has its problems. I don’t want to call it toxic but there is definitely [...]
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