I think you are on the right track. Good insight …

Comment on 10 TOP INDICATORS You’ll Get Back Your Ex by LOVE DOCTOR, YANGKI AKITENG.

I think you are on the right track. Good insight into what and why things fell apart is very important. But trying not to make the same mistakes is just one part of the equation. The most important part is showing your ex that you bring something better to the relationship; something that will build and create a better partnership.

At the end of the day, that’s what makes that difference between “I don’t think this will work” and “May be this relationship has a chance”.

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Appreciate? REALLY? Then why are criticizing me and asking for more. People! Kidding!… 🙂

I appreciate you being true to your thoughts and feelings, and voicing your concern. I am sure there are many other readers who want to see more on certain topics but are not sure how to ask, or if it’s even okay to ask.

My articles are reader-driven, meaning, I look to clicks and “likes” to tell me what kind of information my readers are looking for.

I also take note of the kind of questions people are asking both in the comments and during coaching, and try to answer those questions and concerns through articles.

If there are topics you and your friends would like more of, let me know though clicks and likes. I’ll try my best to respond with more articles.


10 TOP INDICATORS You’ll Get Back Your Ex
Basically what he is saying is that if he doesn’t find someone “better”, then he’ll come back to you. My question to you is, are you okay with this arrangement?

It works for some people in that after dating for a while he realizes what he had with you is better than what is out there. It doesn’t work for others, after a while the chemistry fades or he meets someone else and wants to pursue that relationship instead. What’s most important is NOT what he wants but what YOU want and can live with.


10 TOP INDICATORS You’ll Get Back Your Ex
It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.


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Since it’s something that was learned – whatever can be learned can be unlearned. The only exception – at least from what I read – is if something happened to your brain to cause you not to be able to have/experience certain feelings the way the rest of us do, then you need more than just “unlearning” the behaviour. Other than that, if you really want to change, you CAN CHANGE!


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You will be just fine… I know it. All the very best.


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This could be because you still want her as your girlfriend and not as a friend. Until you reach that point where you “let go” hoping there will be a relationship of more than friends, it’ll be hard to get to being friends. Best advice is 1) be honest with your ex, friendship may be possible in the future, but right now you just can’t do it and 2) don’t try too hard to be her friend. Friendships are best when they just happen naturally.


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Over 90% honestly believe that it is over and thy are not changing their minds. Most change their minds because the dynamic changed and they can see the relationship can be better.

What I am saying is, as long as the lines of communication are still open, there is always a possibility he’ll change his mind. It is who you become (new you) and what you do to make the relationship FEEL and BE new and better that makes all the difference.


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