It is mixed signals alright. It happens when someone still …

Comment on 4 Strong Signs Your Break-Up Isn’t Final – Pt. 2 by LOVE DOCTOR, YANGKI AKITENG.

It is mixed signals alright. It happens when someone still has feelings for you but doesn’t think or is not sure the relationship can work.

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4 Strong Signs Your Break-Up Isn’t Final – Pt. 2
First of all, very few exes end a relationship saying: ‘I am breaking up with you but I am sure I will change my mind and want you back’. Very few.

Over 90% honestly believe that it is over and thy are not changing their minds. Most change their minds because the dynamic changed and they can see the relationship can be better.

What I am saying is, as long as the lines of communication are still open, there is always a possibility he’ll change his mind. It is who you become (new you) and what you do to make the relationship FEEL and BE new and better that makes all the difference.


4 Strong Signs Your Break-Up Isn’t Final – Pt. 2
It sounds like it. Why else would he tell you he now feels he would be in a better position to be with you and doesn’t feel like seeing other people. I would even go further than “rethinking the breakup” to say he is thinking of the two of you getting back together.

If nothing happens to make him think getting back together may not be a good idea after all, I think you’ll get back together very soon.

Make sure you start over and create a new relationship. In your kind of situation, it’s very easy to fall back to the old relationship and have him again say he wants to date other people or come up with some other reason to break-up again.

Ms. Independent. Hmm, I like… 🙂


Recent Comments by LOVE DOCTOR, YANGKI AKITENG

How Can I Change My Ex’s Mind?
I am humbled by your kind words, and happy to have been of some help in your healing and growth.

Whether it is worth putting in more effort or not is a decision only you can make. I don’t think it’s a good idea to outsource to me or anyone a decision that is about your heart and/or life because the only person who’ll have to live with the decision is YOU.


Why Women Are Not Interested In You
Fell in love? Just like that???

Baby boy needs serious help! Does anyone know the number to call 911?


I Don’t Want To Do ‘No Contact’ But I Have No Choice
I like your question, but it does not fit under this article. I have responded to it as a separate post. You can find the answer here.


The TRUTH About No Contact No One Tells You
I hope you understand that all I can do is give advice. I can’t stop you from doing ‘no contact”… I do not have the desire to even try.

As we Africans say: Wear your rags to your funeral. Who am I to stop you.

I just hope for your sake, she is “waiting” for you to contact her. Some exes are not that “patient”.


How To Stop The Silent Treatment
“I ignore her… makes me feel wanted and valued” is not just about control, it’s worse. It’s manipulation.

Hurting someone else so as to feel wanted and valued is a sign of low self-esteem, emotional dysfunction and/or immaturity.

One day she’s going to catch up on it… and you’ll be here looking for advice on “how to get back my ex”…

Just saying…

I think you’ll find my article helpful (if you are willing to be helped): Is Playing Mind Games Normal In Relationships?


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