10 Emotional Triggers Your Ex Needs To Feel – No.1
Many, if not all of us know that if we want to get our ex back, we should try as much as possible not…
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3 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress With Your Ex
Almost everyone trying to get their ex back feels like sometimes they are just spinning their wheels, unable to gain traction or move things…
Signs You Or Your Partner Is Emotionally Immature
Emotional maturity is not something most of us consciously look for in a partner. For many of us, it’s not even a priority in…
ATTRACT BACK YOUR EX
3 Reasons Why You’re Not Making Progress With Your Ex
Almost everyone trying to get their ex back feels like sometimes they are just spinning their wheels, unable to gain traction or move things…
Does Your Ex Have A Negative View Of You?
I’ve said this in my many of my articles and write quite a bit about in my eBook: what you talk about with your…
14 Mindful Steps to Attract Back Your Ex
Self-trust is a topic many of us don’t think much about when trying to get back an ex. We’re do focused on “what to…
My Ex Contacted Me How Do I Respond?
Question: My girlfriend of 2yrs decided 5 weeks ago that she wanted “a break” with no contact. A couple of weeks before the breakup…
7 Tips to Stay Motivated and Get Back Your Ex
If you want to achieve anything worthwhile, you have to teach yourself to be disciplined enough to stick with it long enough to see…
Should I Get Back With An Ex Who Cheated?
Question: I broke up with boyfriend of 3 years 7 weeks ago when I found out he had cheated with another woman. He apologized…
EMOTIONAL GROWTH
Signs You Or Your Partner Is Emotionally Immature
Emotional maturity is not something most of us consciously look for in a partner. For many of us, it’s not even a priority in…
Know How Your Ex Feels Without Asking
One of the things that frustrates some of my clients is insist on “What exactly did he/she say, when, why and how did he/she say…
If Someone Loved You Would They Would Change For You?
Experts agree that the reasons we choose the “wrong people” are varied and complex. After a lifetime with automatic pilot set on “seeking acceptance”…
4 Ways to Deal With A Narcissist
Have you noticed how some men and women think that the only reason anyone could ever dislike them or their behaviour is because that…
12 Characteristics Of Truly Loving People
Do you sometimes wish relationships were a lot easier? Easier like not too stressful? Like you could just enjoy the wonderful feeling of being…
Overcoming The Fear Of Rejection Or Hurt
The notion that men are natural pursuers and women want to be pursued is so last century that it doesn’t make sense in today’s…
HEALTHY ATTACHMENT
Why Your Ex Is Being Too Nice All Of A Sudden
Have you had someone say very nice things about you and instead of it making you feel “good’, you feel really uncomfortable and even…
What Does Slowing Down Mean In A Relationship?
You met someone you wish, dream and pray is the person you’ll spend the rest of your days on earth with, then for some reason…
7 Wrong Reasons To Fall In Love
When you are hopelessly in love, you don’t really care whether someone is right or wrong for you. You’re so in love with the…
What Is Needy Contact With Ex?
If you are struggling with finding the right balance between trying to reconnect and respecting your ex’s boundaries, you are not alone. Not knowing…
How Much Space Should I Give My Ex?
“I’m giving him/her his/her space” is the excuse most men and women give for not contacting their ex. This so overused excuse is usually…
5 Signs Your Ex Is Emotionally Toxic
Why did my ex do this, and why is he/she doing that, are questions almost everyone who leaves a comment on my blog, or…
SEXUAL CONFIDENCE
Is Sexiness A Part Of Some People’s DNA?
Extensive evidence says that both men and women form a schema of “sexy” according to media and fashion stereotypes about sexiness. They first look…
5 Bad Boy Traits Women Find Irresistible – Pt 1
Why do women always fall for the bad boys and leave the good guys?” This is a puzzle that bugs the hell out of…
Without That Sexual Spark You’re Just Friends
Everyone loves a good kiss – or at lease most men and women do. Guilty! I will not deny that I’ve dumped a guy…
Sexual Energy and Body Language
Did you know that you can predict with 90% accuracy if a man or woman is good or lousy in the bedroom even before…
How Quickly Do Men Fall In Love?
The most asked question by women of all ages is: “Is he in love with me?” I have a different take on what is…
10 Common Reasons Why Many Men Get Rejected
They say attractiveness resides on a subtle layer just below the surface of your skin, but so does “not attractive.” I have written many…
LOVING RELATIONSHIPS
Are You Choosing The Wrong Partners?
The reasons we choose the “wrong people” are varied and complex. One thing doesn’t change though. We choose the “wrong” people hoping that we can…
A Relationship Can Still Work Even With Differences
So what do you think after reading about Jen and Tom’s opposites attract love match and Karen and Greg’s likes attract love match? Is your…
5 Signs He/She Wants To Break Up With You
1. S/he’s emotionally distant We all experience moments were we disengage or “me-time”, but when your boy/girlfriend or partner is continuously disconnected from you…
Are You Likes-Attract Love Match?
Jen and Tom are opposites attract love match. Now let’s look at Karen and Greg’s likes attract love match. Love Match # 2 –…
My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want To Break-Up?
Question: My boyfriend and I have been having a rough patch in our relationship. We’ve been together for four years but the last one…
How To Heal Hurt Feelings And Animosity
Scientists studying the physical nature of hate found that some of the nervous circuits in the brain responsible for hate are the same as…
COMMITMENT
Do All Men Want To Have Children?
Question: I’m in my mid 30’s. My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago. We were together for over five years and had…
She Wants A Commitment – Should I Let Her Go?
Question: She wanted to get married about 4 months into our relationship but I wanted to wait a while. She broke up with me but…
Men Who Cheat And The Women Who Love Them
Remember all the times you swore, “If a guy cheated on me, I would kick him to the curb. To me that would be…
Read This Before You Dump A Commitment Phobe
Having personally suffered from severe commitment phobia for many years, I know that being in love with someone who is afraid of commitment is…
Red flags Your Partner Is Not Committed to the Relationship
Many relationships described by the individuals in the relationships as “committed relationships” often are, in reality, uncommitted. While there are as many types of…
Help! I’m In Love With A Married Woman
Question: I found my soul mate. She’s perfect! Only problem is…she’s married. Every time we say goodbye after a few stolen hours together, my heart…
LETTING GO
Does Contact With Your Ex Prevent Moving On? – Pt. 1
Does contact with an ex you still have feelings for prevent you from moving on? Most people will say, YES! Being too close or…
Men Too Go Through The Emotions Of A Break-Up
For the longest time, we’ve been told that women are more vulnerable to the emotional rollercoaster of relationships. But research published in the June 2010…
Let Go To Hold On To Your Relationship
Let go to hold on?! What the… I know… reads like an oxymoron. But this is probably the only thing that’ll save your struggling relationship, so…
How Soon After A Break-Up Should You Start Dating Again?
You tried to get back your ex and it didn’t work. So much damage had been inflicted on the relationship that it just could…
Does Contact With Your Ex Prevent Moving On? – Pt. 2
For some of us, staying close to an ex after a break-up is not even an option. Things ended so badly that neither party…
How to Get Over Your Ex and Move On
Question: I broke up with my ex more than a year ago but I still think of him. I know that I don’t regret…
SINGLE AGAIN
9 Love Secrets Your Mama Should’ve Told You
Love is so powerful because it is the closest we ever come to the divine. But if we don’t know what truly makes love…
Should A Woman Make The First Move?
Question: Is it okay for a woman to make the first move? What’s the best time frame between contacts? How do I change things…
12 Hot Places to Meet 30 Plus Cool Singles
Many single men and women think that going up to a complete stranger and risk rejection takes guts, I think what it takes is…