Saturday November 29th 2014

How to Be Emotionally Attractive»

Why He/She Treats You Like You Are NOT »

Why He/She Treats You Like You Are NOT Special

Question: You write in one of your articles that “we teach people how they treat us”. [Read More]


Needy & Clingy Behaviour

Are You Misinterpreting Your Ex’s Actions? Are You Misinterpreting »

Fear of rejection and worry that someone might not love you enough is bound to create [...]


Facebook Unfriending Has Real Life Consequences Facebook Unfriending Has »

Unfriending someone on Facebook may be as easy as clicking a button, but a new study from [...]


Why Experts Are Wrong About Giving Your Ex Space Why Experts Are Wrong About »

Question: Yangki, I've read many of your articles and you seem to advocate not giving [...]


Making Your Relationship Work

She Loves Me But She’s Not Over Her Ex

She Loves Me But She’s Not Over Her Ex

Question: I'm 54 and she’s 42. We had an immediate attraction and talked on the phone a few times, hang out with each other and after a month or so ended up in a physical relationship. At the time she was separated from her long time boyfriend so we had no expectations and no strings attached. Four months into the relationship she told me she [...]

How Can I Make My Boyfriend Physically Attracted To Me?

How Can I Make My Boyfriend Physically Attracted To Me?

Question: I know this sounds crazy. My boyfriend is not physically attracted to me. We met on an internet dating site. Our first in person was in a coffee shop and as soon as I drove up to meet him he gave me this terribly disapproving look. I immediately felt unattractive and inadequate although I’m in great shape and dress attractively. I was [...]

Is Your Relationship Making You Depressed?

Is Your Relationship Making You Depressed?

According to a new study, individuals with strained and unsupportive spouses are significantly more likely to develop depression, whereas those without a spouseare at no increased risk. And those with the lowest quality relationships had more than double the risk of depression than those with the best relationships. The study, which was [...]

How Sexually Significant Are You To The Opposite Sex?

How Sexually Significant Are You To The Opposite Sex?

Having emotional significance is an incredibly powerful currency when it comes to dating, but having sexual significance is the deal breaker. You either have sexual significance or you don’t. Unlike emotional significance, there are no high or low degrees when it comes to sexual significance. You have it or you don’t. You can be the nicest [...]