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Does Your Ex Miss You After A Break-Up?

Does Your Ex Miss You After A Break-Up?

Comment: Yangki, I think that No Contact works if you wait long enough for both you and your ex to remember the good times at the beginning of your relationship, more…

ATTRACT BACK YOUR EX

Ex’s Mixed Signals Good or Bad?

Ex’s Mixed Signals Good or Bad?

Trying to get your ex back is a difficult process — no question about it. One of the most difficult things is dealing with the inconsistent and sometimes contracting information…

Should You Ask Your Ex Out On A Date?

Should You Ask Your Ex Out On A Date?

Many of you have asked me “Should I ask my ex ….” (this or that). Yes… you can ask your ex for anything. Ask for more contact. Ask for more…

Should I Leave My Ex Alone?

Should I Leave My Ex Alone?

Question: I was with my ex for 3.5 months but he said things were moving too fast for him and he wanted a break. I didn’t contact him and he…

EMOTIONAL GROWTH

10 Signs You Shouldn’t Let Him Go

10 Signs You Shouldn’t Let Him Go

What could be more perfect than a man with a touch that can transform even a handshake into a sensual caress; the suave sophisticate who knows all the little romantic…

15 Reasons You Shouldn’t Let Her Go

15 Reasons You Shouldn’t Let Her Go

Many men have at some point or other in their lives been deceived and dazed by a woman’s looks. Many of them have wasted countless hours and spent small fortunes…

Why You Should Forgive Your Ex Already

Why You Should Forgive Your Ex Already

Forgiveness has been on my mind lately. No, I am not hurting. And I have forgiven all I need to forgive, and hopefully have been forgiven for all the wrongs…

BREAK-UP EMOTIONS

How Do I Tell My Ex I Moved On?

How Do I Tell My Ex I Moved On?

Question: My ex and I grew apart over the course of a 4-year relationship. We both could see how the other was changing and wanted different things but despite all…

Protecting Your Heart From a Heart-Break

Protecting Your Heart From a Heart-Break

I want to say right from the beginning that I’m one of those people who believes that we don’t “look for and find love” but rather, the love already in us…

HEALTHY ATTACHMENT

What Makes Your Ex Feel Pressured?

What Makes Your Ex Feel Pressured?

Question: Yangki, my ex broke up with me over six months ago because he said I was needy and clingy. I worked hard and have filled my life with things…

SEXUAL CONFIDENCE

Natural Sexual Confidence – Pt 2

Natural Sexual Confidence – Pt 2

Sexual charisma is like a MAGNET. If you’ve got it, you’ll draw people to you. So how does one get sexual charisma? 1) DEVELOP A SEX-POSITIVE ATTITUDE Unlearn your guilt…

LOVING RELATIONSHIPS

Help! I’m In Love With Two Women

Help! I’m In Love With Two Women

Question: We have been happily married for 9 years and have two wonderful children.  Four months ago I ran into my high school sweetheart and my first love and now my…

The Silent Treatment as a Way of Coping

The Silent Treatment as a Way of Coping

Some of you wrote me about my article: How To Stop The Silent Treatment. You felt that it is one-sided because it does not explain things from the perspective of…

Are You Just Too Alike To Be Together?

Are You Just Too Alike To Be Together?

Karen and Greg are both quick-witted, confident, romantic, adventurous, fun-loving, ambitious, cut-throat lawyers who love their lives and careers. They both are very social and love meeting new people, seeing…

COMMITMENT

Is It Okay For A Woman To Propose?

Is It Okay For A Woman To Propose?

Question: My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years now. Our relationship is great in that we do not fight or have bad arguments. He…

How Do I Know Someone Is Right For Me?

How Do I Know Someone Is Right For Me?

Question: First of all let me say, I’ve been through almost every post on your blog and every article on your website and I have to say, you really know…

SINGLE AGAIN

Older Women Younger Men: Should They Date?

Older Women Younger Men: Should They Date?

The sitcom Cougar Town starring Courtney Cox is meant to empower women or at least that’s what the show is said to do. It stars Courtney Cox’s character (Jules Cobb) a recently…

15 Statements That Say You’ve Given Up On Love

15 Statements That Say You’ve Given Up On Love

Intimate relationships are not just good for us, they are necessary because they challenge and stimulate our emotional, sexual and spiritual maturity. When you love someone, and someone loves you,…

LIVING LOVE

How Do I Love Someone Who’s Mean To Me?

How Do I Love Someone Who’s Mean To Me?

Question: Yangki, I’ve read your articles and absolutely love everything you have to say about love. I’m trying to be a more loving person in my romantic relationship and in…

How Is Your Love Account?

How Is Your Love Account?

In today’s culture, and especially in these hard economic times, many of us are paying more attention to our bank accounts than we’re paying to our love accounts. We all…

A Lesson On Love Worth Learning

A Lesson On Love Worth Learning

A fable about a young pup and a very old dog conveys a lesson on love worth learning. Every day the pup chased his tail frantically while the old dog…

RESEARCH

Facebook More Irresistible Than Sex?

Facebook More Irresistible Than Sex?

Facebook and email trump sex in terms of sheer irresponsibility, a German study says. For one week the phones, provided by the researchers, buzzed seven times daily, alerting study subjects to…

The Sound Of A Woman In Love

The Sound Of A Woman In Love

Hmmm… the sound of a woman in love. Not that sound, silly. This is another kind of sound. According to a study published in the fall by the Journal of Nonverbal…

Can Someone Get Over Their Ex So Quickly?

Can Someone Get Over Their Ex So Quickly?

Can someone get over an ex immediately after a break-up? Yes, especially if he or she had emotionally “moved on” even while you were still in the relationship. This usually…