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The Best Way To Know How Someone Is Feeling

The Best Way To Know How Someone Is Feeling

If you want to know how someone is feeling, close your eyes and use your ears. According to research published by the American Psychological Association, relying solely on facial cues…

How Do I Respond to Pressure From My Ex?

How Do I Respond to Pressure From My Ex?

Question: Yangki, what about in a situation where she responds but tells you that she will only agree to meet you in person if you are getting back together otherwise…

How Can I Change My Ex’s Mind?

How Can I Change My Ex’s Mind?

It’s is so much easier to say, just “let things happen naturally” than actually “Let. Things. Happen. Naturally. Even for the most laid back and most patient of us, there comes…

EMOTIONAL GROWTH

The Best Way To Know How Someone Is Feeling

The Best Way To Know How Someone Is Feeling

If you want to know how someone is feeling, close your eyes and use your ears. According to research published by the American Psychological Association, relying solely on facial cues…

BREAK-UP EMOTIONS

Should I Respond To My Ex’s Texts?

Should I Respond To My Ex’s Texts?

A couple of days later, she texts me telling me she really misses me. I didn’t respond. Another text saying if I didn’t want to hear from her again, she’d leave me alone. I didn’t respond to that one too

Is It A Break-Up When They Just Disappear?

Is It A Break-Up When They Just Disappear?

For those of you who may not know, ‘ghosting’ is when someone ends a relationship suddenly and without explanation, cuts off all contact and ignores your attempts to reach out….

HEALTHY ATTACHMENT

7 Wrong Reasons To Fall In Love

7 Wrong Reasons To Fall In Love

When you are hopelessly in love, you don’t really care whether someone is right or wrong for you. You’re so in love with the idea of being in love that…

SEXUAL CONFIDENCE

Find A Man Who Calls You Beautiful

Find A Man Who Calls You Beautiful

A group of friends and I were watching a TV documentary one of my friends put together on sexual selection and consumerism in the twenty-first century. As I was watching…

No. 2 Reason Women Break-up With A Guy

No. 2 Reason Women Break-up With A Guy

What’s the number one reason many women break up with a guy they think is really wonderful, they get along with really well, and even love? He won’t commit. The…

5 Signs A Man Or Woman Is Into You

5 Signs A Man Or Woman Is Into You

Relationships, especially new relationships thrive on mystery, unfamiliarity, and the thrill of the chase — what has come to be known as “playing hard to get”. Personally, I think every…

LOVING RELATIONSHIPS

Communicating Your Needs Without Nagging

Communicating Your Needs Without Nagging

There is a saying “you teach people how they treat you”. If you do not communicate (well) to the other person what you want and don’t want, what you like and…

Help! I’m In Love With Two Women

Help! I’m In Love With Two Women

Question: We have been happily married for 9 years and have two wonderful children.  Four months ago I ran into my high school sweetheart and my first love and now my…

Stop Worrying About Him Leaving You

Stop Worrying About Him Leaving You

Question: This summer I met a wonderful guy online and after a few chats we met in person. He says he is attracted to me and I admit I am very…

COMMITMENT

Mr. Unavailable Or Mr. Unhappy?

Mr. Unavailable Or Mr. Unhappy?

Question:  How do you know it’s about you and how do you know you are with an unavailable partner? I was with my ex-boyfriend for 2 years. We were happy…

5 Things You Must Have Before You Commit

5 Things You Must Have Before You Commit

Question: I want to start by thanking you for all the free advice that you provide. I’m in a relationship that is fairly stable. We’ve been dating exclusively for 16…

SINGLE AGAIN

Older Women Younger Men: Should They Date?

Older Women Younger Men: Should They Date?

The sitcom Cougar Town starring Courtney Cox is meant to empower women or at least that’s what the show is said to do. It stars Courtney Cox’s character (Jules Cobb) a recently…

Should A Woman Make The First Move?

Should A Woman Make The First Move?

Question: Is it okay for a woman to make the first move? What’s the best time frame between contacts? How do I change things from me calling him to him…

LIVING LOVE

How Do I Love Someone Who’s Mean To Me?

How Do I Love Someone Who’s Mean To Me?

Question: Yangki, I’ve read your articles and absolutely love everything you have to say about love. I’m trying to be a more loving person in my romantic relationship and in…

How Is Your Love Account?

How Is Your Love Account?

In today’s culture, and especially in these hard economic times, many of us are paying more attention to our bank accounts than we’re paying to our love accounts. We all…

RESEARCH

The Best Way To Know How Someone Is Feeling

The Best Way To Know How Someone Is Feeling

If you want to know how someone is feeling, close your eyes and use your ears. According to research published by the American Psychological Association, relying solely on facial cues…