Thursday May 17th 2012

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Why You Love People Who Can’t Love You Back »

Why You Love People Who Can’t Love You Back

Question: I respect your advice but I believe that "you can't love another person until you love yourself" [Read More]


Emotional Attractiveness

Why She Doesn’t Want To Talk To You Why She Doesn’t Want To Talk To You »

One of my very favourite pastimes is watch people interact with each [...]


What Makes Moving On After A Break-Up So Hard What Makes Moving On After A Break-Up So Hard »

You may be one of those people tired of people telling you that you [...]


Increasing Likeability Without Losing Yourself Increasing Likeability Without Losing Yourself »

I think it's safe to say that we're so interconnected that we need [...]


On-and-Off Relationships

Using Sex To Fix A Bad Relationship

Using Sex To Fix A Bad Relationship

It's been said sex sells but it's more like sex fixes everything: horniness, loneliness, frustration, sadness, a headache, work stress, boredom, emotional vulnerability, low self esteem, guilt, a fight (especially that one!) etc. Things that have nothing at all to do with sex, let alone making love. For many couples, sex is the "default [...]

Why Some Get Back Together After A Break Up and Others Don’t

Why Some Get Back Together After A Break Up and Others Don’t

Whenever someone comes to me asking for help getting their ex back, one of the things I look for is if there was strong enough emotional attraction and if enough time had been spent creating an emotionally safe relationship. A good number of people are quick to say, yes to both. But when I ask a few questions, we both quickly realize that in [...]

Should I Break Up With My Boyfriend?

Should I Break Up With My Boyfriend?

Question: My boyfriend and I have been having a rough patch in our relationship. We’ve been together for four years but the last one year has really been very difficult. He got laid off and has not been able to get a stable job since. He has become withdrawn and not the fun loving man I knew him to be. Whenever I ask him about us, he just says, [...]