Tuesday March 31st 2015

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Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex »

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Does contact with an ex you still have feelings for prevent you from moving on? Most [Read More]


Needy & Clingy Behaviour

Will No Contact Make Your Ex Miss You? Will No Contact Make Your »

Comment: Yangki, I think that No Contact works if you wait long enough for both you and [...]


10 Signs Of A Loser Mentality [Relationship Killers] 10 Signs Of A Loser »

I happen to believe that we all are good "enough" just the way we are. Sure, we all have [...]


What Can I Do To Make My Ex Happy? What Can I Do To Make My Ex »

Question: Yangki, I've read all of your site and love your advice. I was with my ex for [...]


Making Your Relationship Work

Communicating With Your Ex Post Break-Up – Pt 2

Communicating With Your Ex Post Break-Up – Pt 2

Click here to read Pt 1 Building a strong emotional bond goes beyond "good communication skills". Building a strong emotional bond is about emotional intimacy. Intimacy! Now, that's a word that scares many of us, including the "experts". Why? Because you can't talk about "intimacy" without talking about vulnerability and the possibility [...]

Can Your Relationship Work If You’re Fighting All The Time?

Can Your Relationship Work If You’re Fighting All The Time?

Can your relationship work if you are fighting all the time? Or do the constant arguments mean that maybe you were not "made for one another"? A recent study published in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology says it depends. Researchers Norbert Schwarz and Spike W.S. Lee put some of our most common romantic metaphors to the test. [...]

Help! My Family Hates My Boyfriend

Help! My Family Hates My Boyfriend

Question: We’re both in our early 30s, been together for 5 years. We have our own problems which we have been seeing a counsellor about and finally feel that we are creating the relationship we both want. Although I’m optimistic about the future of our relationship, I don’t feel happy because my family hates my boyfriend. They always come in [...]

On-And-Off Again Relationship – Time To Give Up?

On-And-Off Again Relationship – Time To Give Up?

I receive email questions from men and women, young and old, and from all walks of life who are in a relationship that on-again and off-again. Both people are in some ways hurting each other but the attraction and chemistry is so strong that they can’t imagine life without the other. It is as if they're locked in what I call “madness for [...]